I lost my wife

[JTR357]

My wife, the love of my life passed away on July 24th 2024. She was sick for a very long time & she fought hard every step of the way. She was the strongest & most selfless person I have ever known. I am beside myself. For the past 3 years my whole life was taking care of her every need. Now I don't know what to do with myself. I just feel very empty & lost. I know this is a knife forum, but I've been here a long time & just need to vent to my knife brothers & sisters. If anyone else has experienced this, I would appreciate some guidance.
We were together for 27 years. I've lost my mom & dad & most of my family but none of that compares to this.
Here's her obituary. I don't know what else to say, except thank you for your condolences & blessings.

Obituary for Patty Roderick at Lehrer-Gibilisco Funeral Home

Patty Roderick, a beacon of strength and selflessness, left an indelible mark on the hearts of those she encountered. Her unwavering dedication to putting others before herself was a testament to her generous spirit. Pattys love for her family was boundless, and her actions spoke volumes of her...

www.lehrergibilisco.com

 

[Blues]

So sorry, John. I don't know what other words to offer at this time. I hope you will heal with time.

 

[JTR357]

So sorry, John. I don't know what other words to offer at this time. I hope you will heal with time.

Thank you

 

[Stixmagill]

John,
Everything you feel is normal. Reaching out to others is the right thing to do. Accept help from anyone and everyone and let the community know what we can do for you.
God bless you and Godspeed.

Sincerely,
Scott

 

[John Phillips]

My sincere condolences John. I’m so sorry for your loss. Hopefully you’ll find moments of remembering the best times you shared together. Hang in there.

 

[Sharp & Fiery]

My condolences. It’s sad to read this. Scott’s post is great advice. Reach out to anyone and everyone. I will keep you in my prayers, John.

 

[Steven65]

John my deepest condolences to you and your family on your devastating loss. Words are insufficient at these times.
May her memory be a blessing to you and your family always.

 

[Crag the Brewer]

I can't even imagine.
You are correct about reaching out. That shows a tremendous amount of strength. I hope you heal and can cope in ways that are best for you.

Prayers sent.

 

[JJ_Colt45]

I'm sorry for your loss John. I don't have words that will ease the pain, but I wish peace and strength for your family in this difficult time.

Putting focus into hobbies and the company of family and friends is good. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

 

[JTR357]

Thanks guys. I really appreciate your words.

 

[AntDog]

So sorry to hear this, John. I know nothing will help, but I pray for peace, blessings, and cherished memories for you and yours.

 

[jlauffer]

So sorry for your loss. Try to take some small comfort in that she's no longer suffering.

 

[SVTFreak]

Aww man. I’m so sorry. I couldn’t imagine. Praying for you, man.

 

[madcap_magician]

I'm very sorry for your loss, John. It's OK to grieve and to feel lost. I pray you will heal and find peace in time.

 

[knarfeng]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My very deepest condolences.

 

[M.FREEZE]

I would say that if she fought every step of the way, is as strong and selfless as you say, she was doing so for you and the people in her life she loves. She stuck it out to the bitter end for her loved ones… not because she couldn’t let go, but because the absence of her presence would sadden the people that loved her. She always put others first, in life and in death.

 

[Bigburly912]

I lost my mother a couple months ago and I can tell you from watching my father go through it that you need to heed the advice above and reach out to any friends or family you have for that support. Seek a grief counselor if you start getting too far down. Dad was with mom for 45 years. Ill be praying for ya.

 

[JR42]

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's always hard to lose a loved one, even (especially?) after a long illness. My dad passed after a being sick for years, and it had deep and challenging effects on my mom, who cared for him. Good on ya for being open- it takes a lot of effort and a strong character to rely on other people when you need help.

 

[Gary W. Graley]

I am sorry for your loss,

G2

 

[navman]

My sincerest condolences.