Komondor,
I suspect there's a lot we agree on, we just haven't gotten to those topics yet.
<b>"It's just that sometimes I wonder about the practicality (don't forget I'm a realist) of traditional defense wisdom when the concept of having to defend yourself against attack is given to an infinite array of circumstances and outcomes. Anything can happen."</b>
There's a reason that "traditional wisdom" becomes traditional. Combat weapons skills are not passed down by the losers, they're passed down by the winners. The losers are busy having dirt shoveled in their faces.
However,the way you use the word "traditional" I get the impression that what you really mean is "antiquated." True, a stick or a knife is less than desirable when facing a firearm, but in the scenario presented, knife against stick, I'll take the stick. Is that my FIRST preference? Heck no, I'd rather have my Kimber .45, or perhaps something along the lines of one of Jerry Hossom's Wakizashis, but if it's stick or knife, I'll take the stick and there are not a lot of "common criminals" (if there is such a thing) that is going to beat me in that scenario. It's a no brainer.
If the BG walking into your bevvy store with a stick knows how to use it, I promise you, you'll soon learn very painfully that your self confidence in that scenario is probably a false sense of security because you really don't understand the true capabilities of the weapon you're facing.
It's understandable. The average rattan Escrima stick really doesn't look like much of anything. It's short, it's almost feather light, and it doesn't even have a point on it.
One solid hit from one is all it will take to forever change your mind about them though.
As for the "psychological advantage" well...
I hope the other guy laughs at my silly little stick. Don't take it seriously, just ignore it and charge right in Mr. BG, it can't hurt THAT much can it?
Lastly,
Yes, anything CAN happen in a fight. An unarmed man might beat the gun, the man with the knife might beat the stick, the guy with the stick might beat the sword etc...
But would you rather go into the fight on a "might" or a "probably?"