Irishwolf91 won't return my El Patron update

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Poor Irish..We all have life stuff everyday
you must think youre the ONLY one having rough time..
Good for you for MANNING UP..
But sorry as it too say.
IGNORE LIST YOU GO.....
 
Agreed bodog,

Make amends and recognize the error of your ways, pull your head out your back side and move on.

Try not to make the same mistake again.
That's manning up. Oddly enough I don't really have an issue with the dude after reading that. We all go through crap and sometimes it makes us act stupid.
 
Manning up and doing the right thing is what he is suposed to do. No credit for doing what you are supposed to do. There must be consequences for such things. His rep should take a big hit from this. Otherwise there will be more people doing such things. We live in a society with very little consequence for not doing the right thing.

Amen to that. It's sad people are given a pass or want a pat on the back when they finally do what they should've done from the start.
 
Amen to that. It's sad people are given a pass or want a pat on the back when they finally do what they should've done from the start.
Bill

WELL SAID Sir..Well said..
 
once this is done and I have the knife, what do I do with this forum? Do i delete all the info in the top section? Do you just close it out? Not sure what to do. Thanks

My opinion is that you leave EVERYTHING here, including his personal info. He apologized and (I assume) returned the knife. OK. But based on how he acted a lot of folks would like to avoid irishwolf91. Leaving everything in this thread, including his info, is not punitive. It just allows people the best chance of making an informed decision about doing business with James Roycroft.

Others might have a different opinion on how to deal with this, and that is cool too. I can understand (but don't agree with) deleting James personal info. However, whatever you do, PLEASE do not remove his name and anything other than his address.

Shootman31, I hope you have a great xmas and get your stuff back on 12/26.
 
Lets not be getting all crazy ... The knife is not home yet ! Much agreed that everything should be left up . I feel for the guy a bit . But he has to pay the price for a little while . Apologies are great but actions are how you clear your name. I have seen a lot of people leave hobbies because they committed some sort of wrong within the community .. But that is chicken shit behavior . Stay around and show the community how you could be a asset . Loose the swearing and stop dwelling on your crappy life and make something of yourself. Ball is in your court kid.
 
Lets not be getting all crazy ... The knife is not home yet ! Much agreed that everything should be left up . I feel for the guy a bit . But he has to pay the price for a little while . Apologies are great but actions are how you clear your name. I have seen a lot of people leave hobbies because they committed some sort of wrong within the community .. But that is chicken shit behavior . Stay around and show the community how you could be a asset . Loose the swearing and stop dwelling on your crappy life and make something of yourself. Ball is in your court kid.

Very well put. Life is not about dwelling on the past, but rather learning from it so we can do better in the future. Irishwolf91 has an opportunity here. He has the opportunity to turn this misadventure into something positive. Let's hope he doesn't waste it. Do better. Be better. And stay with the hobby. Start small. Things will turn around eventually.
 
My opinion is that you leave EVERYTHING here, including his personal info. He apologized and (I assume) returned the knife. OK. But based on how he acted a lot of folks would like to avoid irishwolf91. Leaving everything in this thread, including his info, is not punitive. It just allows people the best chance of making an informed decision about doing business with James Roycroft.

Others might have a different opinion on how to deal with this, and that is cool too. I can understand (but don't agree with) deleting James personal info. However, whatever you do, PLEASE do not remove his name and anything other than his address.

Shootman31, I hope you have a great xmas and get your stuff back on 12/26.

Thanks Man and Merry Xmas to you and yours
 
Worthless. Proves nothing except he put it in a box....wrapped poorly....LOL

I agree that the video proves nothing other then putting it in a box, but let's give him the benefit of the doubt.

Let's see how this plays out, and go from there. Everyone deserves the opportunity to change their ways. I feel people do deserve a pass at some point in their life, it's what they choose to do with the pass that counts. Will he change, I don't know the answer but I hope so as he has a long way to go in life as he's a young guy. I hope this was a learning experience, and that he makes to most of it as it's never too late to change. There are people in this thread that were given a pass, and redeemed themselves, maybe he will too.
 
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The cash was gonna be in your fucking PayPal account dude, how the fuck is that stealing?? But you know what fuck it, you're probably right. I was totall
y in the wrong, maybe i was just too arrogant to see it. I've just had a really fucking hard time with all the shit That's been happening in my life, doe
sn't give me the right to force you to take money instead of your knife back like you asked. So i guess I'm the prick. Fuck it, I'm just getting out of t
he knife community, i don't have the money for this shit anyways, my rep is already ruined now. Brought that on myself. If it counts for anything i reall
y was gonna send you every penny, i am NOT a thief, i just wanted something to go my way for once i guess. I'm sorry dude. You win, you were right, i gue
ss i didn't wanna see that.. Go ahead and gloat to your buddies. I'm the fucking asshole this time. You didn't do anything. Anyways I'm about to send you
the link to the video of me boxing up the el patron, it is really in the mail on the way to you. Damn, never thought I'd be the jackass on the bad end o
f a deal. Sucks
Have a merry Christmas brother. Sorry for being a dick and causing you all the stress. I'm just in a fucked up place in my life. Not justifying my action
s, just trying to say I'm not a bad guy. Anyways take care

What? I know you guys arent giving him a pass for this backpedaling gibberish.

The knife isnt home yet, and if it ends up that way, that is the minimum this guy should have done. Minus all the drama, cussing and fussing and forcible payment options.
 
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The cash was gonna be in your fucking PayPal account dude, how the fuck is that stealing?? But you know what fuck it, you're probably right. I was totall
y in the wrong, maybe i was just too arrogant to see it. I've just had a really fucking hard time with all the shit That's been happening in my life, doe
sn't give me the right to force you to take money instead of your knife back like you asked. So i guess I'm the prick. Fuck it, I'm just getting out of t
he knife community, i don't have the money for this shit anyways, my rep is already ruined now. Brought that on myself. If it counts for anything i reall
y was gonna send you every penny, i am NOT a thief, i just wanted something to go my way for once i guess. I'm sorry dude. You win, you were right, i gue
ss i didn't wanna see that.. Go ahead and gloat to your buddies. I'm the fucking asshole this time. You didn't do anything. Anyways I'm about to send you
the link to the video of me boxing up the el patron, it is really in the mail on the way to you. Damn, never thought I'd be the jackass on the bad end o
f a deal. Sucks
Have a merry Christmas brother. Sorry for being a dick and causing you all the stress. I'm just in a fucked up place in my life. Not justifying my action
s, just trying to say I'm not a bad guy. Anyways take care

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You could definitely do some work on refining your writing skills, James. ;) FWIW: I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt, just so long as you try to turn this ugly negative into a positive.


That's manning up. Oddly enough I don't really have an issue with the dude after reading that. We all go through crap and sometimes it makes us act stupid.

^^^
+1


Lets not be getting all crazy ... The knife is not home yet ! Much agreed that everything should be left up . I feel for the guy a bit . But he has to pay the price for a little while . Apologies are great but actions are how you clear your name. I have seen a lot of people leave hobbies because they committed some sort of wrong within the community .. But that is chicken shit behavior. Stay around and show the community how you could be a asset . Loose the swearing and stop dwelling on your crappy life and make something of yourself. Ball is in your court kid.

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Very well put. Life is not about dwelling on the past, but rather learning from it so we can do better in the future. Irishwolf91 has an opportunity here. He has the opportunity to turn this misadventure into something positive. Let's hope he doesn't waste it. Do better. Be better. And stay with the hobby. Start small. Things will turn around eventually.

^^^
Well said! :thumbup:



I agree that the video proves nothing other then putting it in a box, but let's give him the benefit of the doubt.

Let's see how this plays out, and go from there. Everyone deserves the opportunity to change their ways. I feel people do deserve a pass at some point in their life, it's what they choose to do with the pass that counts. Will he change, I don't know the answer but I hope so as he has a long way to go in life as he's a young guy. I hope this was a learning experience, and that he makes to most of it as it's never too late to change. There are people in this thread that were given a pass, and redeemed themselves, maybe he will too.

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Excellent comment! :thumbup:


I for one, am pulling for this kid (young man), to get his life turned around. Maybe it's because of personal things going on in my life right now, & being Christmas time & all? Regardless- I think this fellow knife nut, needs some support & positive mentoring.

Best of luck!

Edit: This is just some helpful shipping advice, James (as if you don't already have enough on your plate). It was great that you used a USPS flat rate box & that you took a video. In the future, it would help if you filled the box with something to secure the knife from bouncing around inside, & also use lots of tape on the flap & both ends. These extra precautionary measures just help to prevent possible theft. :thumbup:
 
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I for one, am pulling for this kid (young man), to get his life turned around. Maybe it's because of personal things going on in my life right now, & being Christmas time & all? Regardless- I think this fellow knife nut, needs some support & positive mentoring.

Best of luck!

My thoughts exactly. Obviously I enjoy this hobby of collecting and using knives very much. I don't want to see this young man's interest dashed by a set of bad circumstances. We still need to see that the knife in question is returned to its rightful owner, but perhaps there is something that we, as the knife community, can do to help this young man out a little.
 
Long thread!
So, was it true that Irish put up a post to trade the knife away AFTER Gizmo told him he wanted it back and would not accept money in lieu of the originally promised knives?

If so, there is nothing that Irish could do (in my eyes anyway), to show that he is not a lowlife scammer who tried to take advantage of a situation.

Everyone has shit going on in their life. If your shit gets in the way, it's no one's responsibility to fix but yours, and pissing on people is not the way to deal with it. Instead, you beg for understanding and forgiveness and do whatever is in your power to make things right and EARN that understanding and forgiveness.
To tell someone they are in the wrong when you have something THEY OWN and they want it back ASAP, just because you screwed up your life and are BUSY? Give me a freaking break.

I said it in another thread, I say it in front of judges, and I'll say it here: too damn much entitlement in this world.
If more people would man the eff up and just do the right thing, the country wouldn't be going to hell in a handbasket.

Rant over.
 
Forgive and forget??? Do a deal with him??? Not me. That doesn't make me heartless, but it does free me of the potential to ever be his victim. Trust has to be earned and it can be destroyed in a single moment. Irishwolf91 was on my ignore list before this happened and he will remain there. IMO, it is his nature to act the way he has acted in front of us and sooner or later, he will act that way again. I have nearly 30 years of experience trying to help folks who have fallen victim to those who would prey on them. To each his/her own, but I will not forgive and forget in this instance any more than I'd stick my hand into a dark hole down here in the Arizona desert for fear of getting bitten by a rattlesnake. It just doesn't make sense and I don't need to. Just my .02.
 
Forgive and forget??? Do a deal with him??? Not me. That doesn't make me heartless, but it does free me of the potential to ever be his victim. Trust has to be earned and it can be destroyed in a single moment. Irishwolf91 was on my ignore list before this happened and he will remain there. IMO, it is his nature to act the way he has acted in front of us and sooner or later, he will act that way again. I have nearly 30 years of experience trying to help folks who have fallen victim to those who would prey on them. To each his/her own, but I will not forgive and forget in this instance any more than I'd stick my hand into a dark hole down here in the Arizona desert for fear of getting bitten by a rattlesnake. It just doesn't make sense and I don't need to. Just my .02.

No, forgetting this is not really going to happen. It's pretty memorable. Let's see if he can make good on this and atone for his actions. I'll defer further comment until we hear back about the safe return of the knife to its rightful owner.
 
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