Living here in Virginia my entire life, BW Spiders were without a doubt my greatest fear. Greater than anything in the worst of dreams.
Once I hit my '30's, I've had to face this fear multiple times, especially since moving the family to SW Virginia in 2003.
My greatest fear, finding them in the house, occured last year when I found one in the unfinished part of my basement. Ten years ago, I would grabbed a .22 rifle and shot it, but this time, I trapped it and let it free outside.
Anthony Hopkins said one of the most profound things I'd ever heard in a movie of all things, in
"The Edge." To paraphrase, he said he'd never known anyone who'd actually changed their life. Freeing that spider was the mark of my own change, and I haven't stopped there. Life's too short not to attempt change for the better at some point (and I ain't talking about religion), and it's also too short not to carry a Sebenza, for what that's worth.
Professor.