Cosmopolitan Magazine, the 70's:
"There is One Rule: Never Postpone Your Life for a Man."
It may sound funny, but I made myself a sign with that saying on it and kept it posted by my desk at work and at home. When I was younger, it was too easy to want to stay home by the phone just in case "HE" might call. Not going out with friends hoping you might be able to go out with HIM. Arranging your life for HIM. Scheduling your life for HIM.
Hey. Get on with life. Basically, don't postpone your life for ANYONE. Live your life, one day at a time, and plan for the future
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"It just doesn't matter." This has really helped me over the years when I have battled serious depression and a jerk of a boss. I have this printed out and taped inside my top middle desk drawer. When things would get tough, I would open my drawer and read the saying. It just doesn't matter. No matter how bad it seems, how tough the day, what an ass my boss is being, it just doesn't matter. Sort of along the lines of "This too shall pass." In the scheme of things, it just doesn't matter. I have had the same desk for 20 years - that saying is still taped inside my desk drawer!
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"Principles only mean something when you stick to them when it's inconvenient." - Laine Hanson, "The Contender"
This one has helped me many times in my union activities and during life struggles and decisions. You may be up against everyone else and they disagree with you, but when you know you are right, your principles are right on, it's sort of like "Damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!" Being an activist means that you probably are going to piss a lot of people off when you stand up for what is fair, what is right.
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"I didn't do anything wrong. Why do I have to get married?" hehehe.... I was married. ONCE. So why do I have to do it again? I am happily single, independent, and self-sufficient. I own my home, I have a good job, I have lifetime health benefits, I am planning for my retirement, I am in good health, I have good friends. So why do I have to get married to satisfy some outdated society ideal? Answer? I don't!