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I think that living in this modern age of large disposable incomes, its easy to fall into the trap of thinking we need all this stuff we horde around us.
Yes, the question is how much do really need?
How much indeed. It's funny, this whole experiment thing. I've never really been what I would call poor, but having moved out at 17 I've always worked and never have had alot of disposable income. I got married at 25 and got a family going not too long after. Now at 35 I've finally got a bit of truly disposable income and I find that in recent years its like I've been trying to make up for lost time.
I was by no means deprived when I was young, but I did miss quite a bit due to not having the funds to do things with. I always loved outdoors, but never could afford a gun to hunt. I have always had knives, mostly SAK's early on, and a Spyderco for years. In recent times though my gun and knife collection has grown and has in some ways become a burden. I was once told that the more "stuff"you have the more time you spend fiddling with it or caring for it and it takes away from what is important, for me what's important is my wife and kids. It's funny, I've got most of what I've always wanted in the way of big boy toys and I have hit this period of being fascinated with getting by with less. It's so easy to become a slave to your possessions. I have to a great degree, but I'm learning. I think the key is learning to be content, to have balance. Too much of anything can be bad. Don't get me wrong, I'm not tossing out my guns and knives, but I am reconsidering what drives the collection. For a while I'd buy anything I could get my hands on. It started to bother me that I didn't use more than a fraction of what I had. Heck, I didn't even like alot of what I had. I started doing some trading and selling and now my collection is smaller, but there's more quality to it and I'm not afraid to use what I have.
It's really funny to me that the less concerned I am about what I selfishly want the more apt I am to get what I want. Does that make sense? For example if I spend more time on honeydo's my wife is more likely to suggest I go hunting. If I give her the opportunity to have some time away she's more likely to suggest that I have some time away. It's when I get selfish or stingy that my hobbies or possessions cause problems for me. Balance is key, being unselfish. In fact I enjoy my interests more when they don't run me. I have knives that I've spent hundreds of dollars on and my favorites are probably worth less than $50. My outdoor passion is, you guessed it, flyfishing. I get to go on 2-3 good trips a year, but I love them and since they come rarely they are even that much more enjoyable.
In any event to each his own, our difference are what make this world an interesting place to be. This time next year I may look back at the way I think and feel completely different, but who knows. This is a heck of a journey though!!!
Man, who would have thought just carrying one pocket knife for a year would lead me or should I say us to reflect and think so much. Not even a single toddie in me either!
I think this is going to be an interesting year.