I've had oodles of experience on ebay-I "cold turkeyed" a year or so ago but then succumbed to temptation and went back on. You get all kinds of experiences. I've been ripped off by sellers and by buyers. Recently, I sent payment on two items and the vendor slammed me as a deadbeat, "same as always," (his quotes), despite positive feedback earlier on a different deal with him, AND has yet to return my cash he rejected in a huffy.email..
BUT, this is not so much about that venue, although it may be a somewhat useful analogy. Ebay is geared to BUSINESS now, pure and simple, and the rules and practices have changed to not only protect businesses but to give them leverage. For example, the forum remedies can ban a buyer but, to my knowledge, vendors can keep ripping off with the only defense being caveat emptor.
Here, although some folks may turn a dollar or so, it seems to be more about a love for the subject matter, more equivalent to "old ebay" and collectors of whatever memorabilia (remember those old Panasonic donut radios from the 70s?). I've had one deal here, as a buyer, and the seller had what I felt to be a fair price, with shipping and insurance covered, for a discontinued item exactly as described. One went on ebay for a bit less last week, without insurance and shipping, so did I feel I had done a bit poorly? No.
I didn't counteroffer-I wanted that blade and I went for it, at a slight markup since being discontinued, maybe, but a fair markup. And why? I submit blades are different items from most other things, even firearms, in part by virtue of simplicity, and simplicity begets trust and affinity. A fine blade, even ahigh-end production one, merges art, craft, metallurgy, and whatever else. They, as a rule, don't need new parts, just care and sharpening. One of our kind's first tools, so elemental that they transcend the genre of tool.
So, we may feel insulted a bit quicker at a ridiculous offer (and I have seen them). I, for one, would and will probably not be locked into traditional rules of contract law (offer and counteroffer, etc.) and consider that such offers stem from either greed or ignorance. The first, in this venue, merit neither response nor consideration. If the latter, maybe discussion and education. Otherwise, laissez les bon temps rollez. Just a thought.cwd