My 6 week journal--Eat to Live

Good for you! Personally, I don't agree with some of the statements and theories involved here, but in the interest of keeping this going I won't discuss them. Finding the right way to lose weight for you is the important part. Each person is unique, and even though there are tons of methods and ideas applicable to a broad audience, not all apply.

Stick with your life change, retrain yourself to eat right, at the right times. After only a month or so, you will not even want the things you used to. They will also taste gross and make you feel like crap.

I applaud your effort, keep it up!


-Xander
 
Hey X, good to see you here. It is a big change for me, going from low carb mentality to ETL mentality, but so far, it seems to be more sustainable than LC/paleo for me. I think 100 years from now, someone is going to say, "wow! Those guys were dumb for eating like xxxxxxx". Who knows what xxxxxxx will be. Haha. Anyway, I feel good so far, and my sense of taste is coming back.

How's this for weird. I drank soda. A lot of soda. A 2 liter plus a couple 32 oz. fountains a day. Every other time I tried to quit cold turkey I had massive headaches. This time, it's been about 60 hrs, no headaches! Not even a little one! I'm not sure what that is attributed to, but if it is the way I'm eating, more power to it.
 
Just realized I italicized for me, and you italicized for you. Nothing snarky meant in that. Just how it came out.
 
DAY 3---APRIL 11, 2013

Breakfast
Ok, so I've been advised to eat more. In the interest of that, I decided that, since I had time this morning, I would eat a very large breakfast. To wit, one banana, 6 good sized strawberries, 11 plum grapes, 3 cuties oranges, and half an apple. It would have been a whole apple, but on of my domestic terrorists (blue eyed, blonde haired, cute daughter) wanted the other half. You don't negotiate with terrorists. Lol. I am full. I had to force myself to eat the the last orange and the half of the apple. I am full, but not sluggish full. Just full.

Lunch
Big salad with my mashed beans, big handful of carrots, and a pear. Also, some of my carrots were stolen by my 2 yo little boy. He came up and said, "bite, bite, bite" with his hand out. Dang kid. At least he likes carrots, I guess.

Dinner
I ate pretty late. Of course I snacked between lunch and dinner, an apple, a few carrots. For dinner I had an entire romaine lettuce head, about 1/2-2/3 cup of mashed beans, half a bundle of asparagus, baked, and about 3/4 of a head of cauliflower baked with some cayenne pepper, garlic, and a dash of sea salt.

Ps, the brown snake is in full swing. Holy cow, I see why a person will lose so much weight the first week.
 
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I'm not sure if this has been mentioned before but there are also websites that will help you manage your caloric intake. I'm on a program that offers ways to keep track of my food intake. It's not exact but it does help in that it also tells me when I'm eating too many carbs vs. proteins vs. fats. It also has a section that will help establish and track blood pressure and heart rate. I've been using the websites to help me monitor food intake and keep a history of my blood pressure. I was diagnosed with sleep apnea a few years back and I have to be careful with my weight because it can exacerbate the sleep apnea. My family also has a history of heart disease so I have to be very careful. I've always been keen to keep track of cholesterol and blood pressure, which so far has been pretty good. You could try some of these websites, many are free to join. For me, simply dropping nearly all sugar intake out of my diet helped me to drop 25 lbs. That alone was a huge boost to my energy levels. I also take vitamins (on the advise of a nutritionist) for improving my energy. But everyone has different needs based on age, weight, average physical activity, etc. Considering your situation, I don't know if you would have the time to speak with a nutritionist but that will also help. The fact that you're doing something by keeping a journal and seeking help is a great start. If you have the time, you can also try just simple walking around wherever you work. I would recommend a "walking buddy." Someone that you can rely on to keep you motivated and is willing to share time to get fit.
 
Brian, all of that fruit is a good start, but what about those GBOMBS?
See the LINK in powernoodles' Post #9, that's the basis of 'Eat To Live' + making the Salad the Main Meal.

I'll throw up my Shopping List and some recipes if you like, but you have to figure out a way to get them into your meal plan.

Hey, the kids taking your food is a good thing, don't ya think?
 
Phil, feel free to throw up your shopping list. I very much need to expand my greens from just romaine lettuce, and get some dressing ingredients. Also, I'm going to try some different fruit. Raspberries, blueberries, pomegranates, more kiwi, and whatever else I can get my hands on. I've also been looking up recipes. I'm going to try baked asparagus, baked cauliflower tossed in olive oil and sea salt, maybe some sweet potatoes. I can't seem to find mushrooms except canned, which taste like slime. And I HATE onions. I've tried, believe me. I've not liked them from childhood. I've tried to force them on myself, but I can't get used to them.

Rolf, I will look up The China Study.
 
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Just realized I italicized for me, and you italicized for you. Nothing snarky meant in that. Just how it came out.

None taken, I was just emphasizing that weight loss vs. lifestyle changes are as individual as we are, and finding the right one can be difficult. Keep it up!

That's a lot of liquid sugar consumed, yikes! I haven't had a soda in years, I do enjoy an energy drink a few times a week, though. I understand my caloric intake and adjust as needed. For me carb loading is the best I can find for maintaining my weight. I fluctuate between 180-190 and am 6', 30 years old. I walk or ride my bike to work every day (except in inclement weather) and am on my feet for my entire shift.

Remember the foundation of all weightloss, calories in > calories out. Finding ways to stay full while consuming less calories and foods that do what you need them to do is the hard part.


-Xander
 
Okay Brian, you asked for it here ya go.

Berries 'yes' pomegranates & kiwi, not so much.

Baked or roasted veggies, great. Forget about the Olive Oil and Salt. Dr. Furhman says someone at their ideal weight can handle 1 teaspoon of Olive Oil a day.

Somewhere withing driving distance from your house is fresh mushrooms, you can find them.
About the onions, let's see if we can get you to learn to love them.

Let's start with the email I sent Brian today:

Brian,

I have Iced Coffee or Green Tea in the morning, and then it's water the rest of the day. Now that I'm passed the six weeks of the ‘Eat To Live’ program, I have one Fosters (it’s Australian for beer mate) with my cheat meal on Sunday. My Cheat Meal is just one meal, it’s not a cheat Day. It’s whatever I’ve been craving, and I make it myself.

My regular meal plan is; fruit for breakfast (whatever I feel like and as much as I want), break at 11AM a piece of fruit, lunch 1PM is mashed beans and vegetables, 3PM snack a piece of fruit, 7PM Huge salad, 8PM dinner is mashed beans and vegetables, 9PM dessert fruit. I eat every two hours or so. On my breaks I walk, at lunch I walk and I walk home. I'm up to 7 miles a day which works out to about 700 calories burned a day.

My salad will be in a bowl big enough to serve four. In it I’ll use whatever lettuce looks good, celery, onion, cucumber, mushrooms, carrot, apple, pear, raw cashews, fresh or fire roasted red pepper. NO CROUTONS or BACON BITS.

My salad dressing is; 1 tbs. Ground Flax seed, 2 tbs. of Red Wine Vinegar, 2 tbs. of Organic Apple Juice, 1/2 tsp. Dijon Mustard and a dash of Mrs Dash. I shake it up in an empty mustard jar, dress and toss my Huge salad. My dressing tastes great to me. It has No Fat, Oil or Salt.

Or, a handful of raw Cashews, 1 tbs. Ground Flax seed, 2 tbs. of Rice Wine Vinegar, 2 tbs. of Organic Apple Juice, a dash of Mrs Dash, all put into a mini-blender until smooth. It thickens as it sits to whatever consistency you like. I like mine creamy.

Mashed (or pureed) beans are a staple of my personal meal plan. The way I make them is; I dice an onion (maybe you could grate the onion on a box grater) and sauté in a little butter and olive oil, add some crushed red pepper flakes and crushed garlic. When I smell the garlic (only takes about 30 seconds) I add 2 large cans (1 lb. 13 oz,) of rinsed Progresso beans. I stir the beans with the onion and garlic and then add chicken stock (1 cup to a 1 1/2 cups). I toss in some fresh herbs (tyme, rosemary) I let the beans simmer and get really tender, about 10 minutes. Then I puree them in a food processor. This makes about 8 portions. They're very filling and a good source of fibre and protein. Very little fat and no salt. They taste great hot or cold. Much more flavour than mashed potatoes, pasta or rice. Anything I might put over potatoes, pasta or rice I can put over my mashed beans. I've been eating them twice a day for over 8 months and haven't got tired of them yet.

I cook my vegetables for my lunches and dinners in large batches, so I don’t cook every night. My go-to vegetable dishes are; Gazpacho, Pasta Fagioli (minus the pasta), Caponata or Ratatouille (which surprisingly has no rat in the recipe) Chow Mein, or a combination of mixed vegetables steamed and dressed with black pepper and red Wine Vinegar. I search for recipies for vegetables that I don’t really eat, like I want to start eating more Kale, Brocolli and some others that I know are good for me, but I’m not used to them.

That’s when I found:
Gordon Ramsay’s Broccoli Soup:
Bring water to a boil in a large stock pot. Add a large pinch of salt (1 – 1 1/2 Tbsp.). Add broccoli and boil rapidly. Your broccoli is finished cooking when you can pierce it with little or no effort (15 to 20 mins.). Remove the stock pan from the stove burner. DO NOT POUR THE WATER OUT! Use a slotted spoon to add broccoli to a blender but be careful because it’s boiling hot! Pour enough of the water left over from cooking the broccoli to fill the blender half way. Add a pinch (or more) of salt. Use several pulses on your blender to break the broccoli up and then puree for several seconds.
Pour soup into shallow bowl. Drizzle lightly with olive oil and serve at once! Delicious!

I’ve been topping off my soup with sauteed onions and mushrooms. The best Anti-Cancer soup I can think of. Amazing! Mostly because I never ate broccoli.

(You don't like onions I didn't eat broccoli, we can learn to adjust, right?)

Keep up the good work.

I'll put up a couple of the other staples of my meal plan later, it can be the basis of your meals for the week.

Phil

Brian, my projection is, if you get on the program and I mean really do it right, you will lose 10 lbs. your first week, 30 lbs. your first month and be down around 250 by August. Start putting money away for new clothes.

Oh, and you'll never have to count a calorie or ever go hungry
 
Thanks Phil. Here's my goal, and I'll make sure I report back at the appropriate time.

270 lbs by the time the kids are out of school. Able to rejoin the rugby team for fall season in September.

I will need to work some aerobic exercise into my plan. Maybe biking from my main job to my part time job and then back at the end of the day. That would be easy and not hard to work into my schedule.

Phil, so berries not other fruit, or an I missing something?
 
Fruit is good, but Berries ar a Super Food!

Hey, if you have a Foot Processor I think have a solution to your Onion problem.
 
I noticed when I was cooking my sides; beans, spinach and mushrooms they all had Onions in them. Pearl Onions in with the Spinach and Sautéed Onions in the Beans and Mushrooms. Now you can leave the onions out of the mushrooms and spinach, but when you put the Beans through the Food Processor there's no way you can tell if the Onion was in there or not. So, you can get the benefit without any problem with your aversion to them.

Will that work for you?
 
Go for it. Tell me what it is, cause I'm stuck.

You're not alone with this. I HATE onions. Whenever i'm home from school and my mom makes something that might contain onions I search through the garbage for peels. THAT'S how bad it is. It is kind of sad, actually.

The only way I could even possibly think of trying onions in a soup or anything else for that matter is by cooking them first; raw their flavor is just way too strong. GBOMBS minus the O can't be that bad. Five outta six isn't bad ;) I'll eat most any other vegetable other than cucumber and onion.





PhilL: I haven't seen anything listed about starches, like potatoes. I'm more interested in the opinion on sweet potatoes...I know you said most anything is allowed in limited amounts, but would these me allowed "regularly"? I'll define regularly as 3-4 times a week. Let's also assume these potatoes will be consumed without the addition of fat, sour cream, bacon, brown sugar, etc.
 
I'd like to take a moment and write a few observations:
1. I haven't been hungry, or not enough to make me want to quit this way of eating and go back to my old way.
2. I feel good. Really good. This afternoon I felt like I was on cocaine, I was so hyper.
3. It is hard to get over the "you have to eat less to lose weight" thought pattern. It is so deeply ingrained. It almost feels guilty to eat (literally) a gallon ice cream bucket full of salad at a time. Feeling this full all the time seems counter-intuitive. Logically I know it's not, but emotionally it's hard.
4. I still haven't had caffeine withdrawal symptoms, and my cravings for sweets have all but disappeared.

Tomorrow I'm going to pick up some raspberries and blue berries, both of which I'm not crazy about. Maybe my new found sense of taste will make them taste better. Oh, and I need more lettuce. I've gone through more lettuce in the last three days than I have in the last three months. :)
 
PhilL: I haven't seen anything listed about starches, like potatoes. I'm more interested in the opinion on sweet potatoes...I know you said most anything is allowed in limited amounts, but would these me allowed "regularly"? I'll define regularly as 3-4 times a week.

I don't understand this onion thing, I could eat a Vidallia onion like it was an apple, but that's just me. I couldn't touch occra with a stick.

As far as starches, I think you should consider them rarely, not several times a week. Think of them as filler, meaning they are very low in nutrition. Sweet potatoes are better than white potatoes, I think I've had sweet potato fries twice in eight months and white potato only once. Try to get it down to once a week. My filler of choice is my mashed beans, much better and more tasty than any potato.

I noticed you didn't mention ketchup in your list. I'll tell you this potatoes without fats, dairy, salt or ketchup is pretty much library paste, and hardly worth eating.

Try my recipe for beans (with the onion) and you'll never look a potato in the eye again.
 
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Brian started this to lose weight, he's now coming to the realization that the weight loss is a by-product and the real benefit is that he's detoxing and feeding his body what it really needs.... FOOD!

About the book Eat To Live

This book will allow everyone who stays on the program to become
slimmer, healthier, and younger looking. You will embark on
an adventure that will transform your entire life. Not only will you
lose weight, you will sleep better, feel better physically, have more
energy, and feel better emotionally. And you will lower your chances
of developing serious diseases in the future. You will learn why diets
haven't worked for you in the past and why so many popular weightloss
plans simply do not meet the scientific criteria for effectiveness
and safety.

My promise is threefold: substantial, healthy weight reduction in
a short period of time; prevention or reversal of many chronic and
life-threatening medical conditions; and a new understanding of
food and health that will continue to pay dividends for the rest of
your life.
Joel Fuhrman, M.D.
 
I don't understand this onion thing, I could eat a Vidallia onion like it was an apple, but that's just me. I couldn't touch occra with a stick.

As far as starches, I think you should consider them rarely, not several times a week. Think of them as filler, meaning they are very low in nutrition. Sweet potatoes are better than white potatoes, I think I've had sweet potato fries twice in eight months and white potato only once. Try to get it down to once a week. My filler of choice is my mashed beans, much better and more tasty than any potato.

I noticed you didn't mention ketchup in your list. I'll tell you this potatoes without fats, dairy, salt or ketchup is pretty much library paste, and hardly worth eating.

Try my recipe for beans (with the onion) and you'll never look a potato in the eye again.

I'll agree with you on the okra thing. I forgot about it..yuck.

In regards to the spuds, I could easily go without the white potato. I do love sweet potatoes: plain or with a little cayenne. Sweet potatoes definitely good, even plain. White potatoes, not so much!

I will agree to try your bean recipe so long as I can caramelize the onions first. No way I can just right into raw...even if they are absolutely liquefied. The flavor is just too strong (and gross).
 
I will agree to try your bean recipe so long as I can caramelize the onions first.

Yes, of course caramelize them first, the longer you cook them the sweeter they get. You might even want to dice some apple with the onions to sweeten them even more.

About your sweet potatoes, Dr. Fuhrman goes by the 90 - 10 rule, if you eat healthy 90% of the time you're doing good. It's not that sweet potatoes are bad, they're not, if you have to have them several times a week then you have to have them. If all you are putting on them is cayenne and they're not fried then you should be fine. Enjoy!
 
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