Man, some really good thoughts here... I appreciate everyone's input... I enjoy seeing how others "enjoy" this hobby!
I think several have touched on it, but the fact is that for us, knives are more then tools, they are a hobby that includes collecting, owning, and "playing with"... and that the tool aspect can sometimes be secondary function... so maybe what I'm realizing is that the "collector" mindset is the part that I am needing to consider.
I appreciated the comments about not taking things with you... I think that is good to remember... I think I, at heart, fight against being a materialistic minimalist lol... part of me likes the collecting, retaining process.... but the other part of me wants everything that I have to have a purpose - and I think from this thread I'm realizing that collectors value has more of a "purpose" then I thought... and value/purpose is not restricted to physically doing something.
I dug through my drawers and found an old Gerber beater that I got when I was 14 or 15... probably my first "real" folder that I bought... I grew up on a farm... so when I see it, I remember summers of bucking hay, stretching miles of fence (or what felt like miles lol), my best friend and I needing to "break" in to his house because his family was out of town and he needed to get in (we went through the skylight lol)... so when I see it, I see the memories... and while it's a "garbage" knife by my current standards, it has stuck around for that very reason.
So I think my goal this year is going to revolve more around focusing on making new memories with the knives I have... and maybe try and make the "acquisition and selling/trading" portion of the hobby take more of a back seat.
The comments about choosing dedicated workers and dedicated pleasure knives is a good one... and the comment about kicking it across the driveway is a good one too lol... may just have to do that... and I'm finding for some reason I already do that with fixed blades... I have a small collection of fiddlebacks that I "enjoy" different then my "worker" bark rivers... so I'll just try and apply that knowledge to the folder world
Obligatory picks of my teenage user... made me happy to see it again... gonna try and get a few more to this point I think
Keep chatting about your experiences and journey...I find it fascinating reading what others have gone through with regards to this hobby