Thank you very much everybody for all your good advices. I appreciate this very much. And all your advices made me think too.
So many people to adress back so I will just speak out into the air to you all.
----------
The Law
You have made me think differently about the law. I will see what can be done by the law. A restraining order I guess, if it is possible to get that for someone who is not in the country and has never been here. Good idea to make it clear for the police that I am not the aggressor in case I should end up destroying this guy a bit.
I already have a good record with the police by the way, maybe that would help me. I interfered with and stopped some stranger from beating up another stranger on the street once. The police have me in their records for that.
And thinking about a friend of a friend of mine who got assaulted and ended up breaking the knee of the attacker, without getting anything for it because the deputy figured he was a nice guy, then I look a bit light at the situation on my behalf.
Did you hear that fellow Norwegian? The men of the law are not so rigid here I think.
-------
Yes, some pictures will be distributed to neighbours and others.
---------
Self Defence and Martial Arts
Yes, to those of you who mentioned it I have a little bit background. But it is just 5. kuy in Traditional Shotokan Karate. I am not exactly a deadly weapon because of that.
Yes, surely distance fighting will be the way with this neanderthal guy. I have wrestled with short muscular guys before, not very successful. I will use my legs for some kicking as they have proven their value for me before.
I am 1,78 meters and 77 kilos by the way.
To my advantage he doesn't know what I look like so he can't jump on me in a bar or something. He couldn't have anyway as I don't go out and drink. Don't drink at all.
I won't be carrying or using a knife. Don't worry about it. I gave it some thought. Besides, I fight better without it.
But really, I don't know if I will be able to just sit idle and wait for him if I find out he is in town.
----------
The girl and stuff
Yeah... girls take advantage of some volounteer fools to use as shields some times, I know. But I don't feel that this is what is happening. She told me she didn't want me to get any trouble for it, but she is my friend, and so I want to help.
And Frederico, we are just friends, nothing more.
I think the reason why she broke with him now and not earlier is that she is one of those women who have a submissive part in her psychology. You know, some women live in abuse relationships for years without understanding their own good.
But now, away from him, she is becoming a self sufficient person again, she tells me.
I don't think she timed this with my presence, but rather with the distance to him.
Not2sharp, she doesn't like aggression. She shows a strong dislike for it when I hint that he deserves something. So I don't think she is looking to provoke some fighting.
Ankerson, she didn't hang up on him because she has a temper and fought back. Latinas...
----------
Originally posted by sams
The "Hispanics" believe in "machismo". Dishonor a male and you are allowed to physicaly hurt the female.
Interesting information. It helps me understand this a bit more.
Other interesting things you tell about your culture also.
Originally posted by Ankerson
I think you really need to take a good look and use your BRAIN.
Brain? The male brain is situated where?
Don't worry, the one in my head connects some times...
Originally posted by not2sharp
Just remember that you might end up sharing a cell with some big dude named bubba for a l-o-n-g time.
No Bubbas in the jails here, only immigrants of various origins. But that is troublesome enough.
----------
What's this T-shirt all you guys are talking about?
----------
Nordmann
Takk skal du ha. Det går sikkert bra.
Jeg har en mistanke om at han kommer for han virker ikke god. Han har drevet av med litt av hvert visstnok. Han virker som typen til dette.
