There is some great information here. To me a knife show is just one step short of Heaven. From either side of the table. I always try to cut people at a show some slack. You never know if this might be their first show and first exposure to custom knives or if they have been collecting or making for 40 years. Either way it is fun finding out and you never know when your next "best" customer is going to walk up.
Questions never bother me at all. Ask away. Charlie and I always like to talk knives even though we are both have hearing problems and it is sometimes difficult. We really appreciate your patience and y'all cutting us a little slack.
I would rather people not wipe my knives down after looking. I really appreciate the offer, and understand that many are just as capable of doing it as I am, but I would rather the responsibility for the cleaning and any possible damage done by a contaminated cloth be mine. I have had knives scratched that way and there is no good way to deal with that problem except to take the knife off the table. What many don't think about (but it goes through my mind like a flash) is what he just wiped off the other guy's knife is now being wiped onto mine. I really hope that no one takes offence if we ask them not to wipe down the knife after handling it, but it is something we would rather do.
I have no problem with people picking up knives off the table. That is what they are out there for. It is fine if they ask first and I try to do that myself. One thing that does is let the maker know that you have one off the table. It can get hectic at times and we do like to wipe the knives down after they have been handled. It just helps the maker keep up with his knives and keep them clean.
One thing that probably doesn't even need to be mentioned is if you see something going on, don't hesitate to let the maker know about it. We have had people switch sheaths on knives, peal prices off, and scratch knives deliberately. We had one guy start moving knives around on the table for no apparent reason. Others have had knives stolen. Not everybody is at the show for the same reason. It can be hard to keep up with what is going on with several people at the table at the same time and all it takes is one crook to ruin a show for you. The more eyes you have watching out the better.
I would not ask to pick up a knife that had a sold sticker on it. That one belongs to someone other than the maker now and if I damaged it in some way, could cause some hard feelings that money couldn't fix. I won't ask so the maker doesn't have to turn me down.
I like the way Murray described it... It is an us situation.