ok, so I'm a week late on this thread, just want to plug my 1/2 dozen pennies in(hell, with the CAD so low, 6 barely covers it).
I've been around the forums a while. I've seen a few ppl get ripped off, some quite bad.
I've seen far more deals going perfect though.
Even my first trade, I was brand new to trades(hadn't really spent any time reading the forums yet). The other guy sent first and let me take a couple days to decide which package was going his way. Was also my first real taste of cross border deals.
Since then, I get a package about every 3 weeks in the mail. I've got 4-5 coming in the next 2 weeks(sent in the last week). Patience and respect are big things when it comes to trust. Considering that 90% of the BFC crew never see each other, and very few talk outside of the shows, all wa have is out word.
Even with the pile of trades and deals I do, I might have 3-4 threads in GBU. The majority is just email, and after both parties are satisfied, I'm off looking for the next deal. A few have really thrown me off, like getting a strop added in a trade, or my soon to be here customs(twin droppoint fixed, deal was for 1 but he took a while on the sheath and tossed in a 2nd for waiting). Those are the ones that get put up.
Thom's advice to read GBU and look at thier posts is great. I've been able to learn a lot about some of the folks in here by reading even a month of posts.