My friends and i go to night clubs , where i meet 4 women a weekend, so i call them during the week and they start to play games; and have alot of weirdness in their lives; And most come from shady upbringing. Do nightclubs attract a certain type of person? Am i looking in the wrong place? Maybe i should try a skiing or hiking club?
Of course nightclubs attract certain types of women. Think about the smoking, the drinking and the choosing of a place full of heavy drinkers, the noise, the staying out very late, the... well, I'll stop there. Most women who put up with this either do so because they like it (nothing wrong with that, but it is generally a certain kind of woman who tends to like that... and not the "clean-cut, outdoorsy type"), or because they are desperate (and, if they're desperate, there's probably a good reason why). Most ladies who have lots of friends, lots of opportunities, lots of interests, etc., have better ideas about how to spend an evening than trying to hook up with strangers in a nightclub.
Night clubs not only attract certain types of women, they repel certain types of women... very possibly including the ones you're looking for. The woman I've been most seriously involved with (she was a field biologist, though she went back to school and became a medical doctor) has never in her life gone to a night club. The woman I'm currently involved with (a wildlife and landscape photographer) also is not interested in the nightclub scene.
If you want to meet "a nice girl, who comes from a good family and likes the outdoors, and is clean cut", then try meeting her at a systematic botany class, or on a volunteer trail repair crew, or at a meeting of the Native Plant Society, or out camping and hiking, or through a local birding group, or at Wilderness First Responder training, or an annual mycology fair, etc. If you go to stuff like these
and you can also demonstrate your keen naturalist skills, outdoorsman skills, knowledge in relevant lore, your earnestnessyour eligibility, then the most worthwhile women will make sure to
meet you.
