Question about women?????

Vermont woodsman,

When I used to play guitar in pubs and clubs I met all sorts of apparently attractive women, but I never ended up in a relationship with any of them. In my experience, pubs and clubs draw people when they want to get smashed or laid.

Go and look for the woman you want to meet in places like the ones you suggested, where they are more likely to share your interests and approach to life.
 
I was once in an AOL chatroom called "Ask Females Anything."

I asked if any women had the experience of some lout driving by in a car yelling at her "Hey Lady, how much do you charge for a (f-word)."

One woman replied to me that in New Jersey such a request is considered a marriage proposal.
 
steellover said:
You will not find a good woman at a nightclub generally. ...Do not even bother looking. Relax. Most men find their women under the most ordinary of circumstances.
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1) Depends on how "good" is defined. :D
2) As with many other things in life, the harder you look, the quicker you find them.
 
I always thought that hunting women was like hunting rabbits in the Mojave.

The harder you seek them, the fewer there will be. And the good ones always show in an unexpected time and fashion.

Like I said, men meet there women doing ordinary stuff.
 
"Rudeness" can be a lot of fun if you add a bit of humor to it.
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I guess some people I meet may think it's humorous. But once you get to know me, I'm just an ass.
Now shut up and go and wax your back
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Very funny, picking a guy because his family hasn't been walking upright as long as your own. :(

-Bob
 
I met my wife in an internet chat room about a topic we were both interested in. (Evolution vs Creationism on MSN, in case you're interested)

Find a place where people who like the same types of things that you like gather, and hang out there.

Try calling up any outdoorsy stores in the area and seeing if they have a bulletin board with camping/canoeing/kayaking clubs. Take a class or two in something you're interested in. Even if you don't meet your next wife, you're bound to learn something and very possibly make some new friends. :)
 
I don't go to bars. I never have. The women I've known who do hang out in bars tend to be unimaginative and uninteresting. There are so many things to do in the world, and the best they can come up with is to sit in a dark and noisy hole. (This doesn't just apply to women.)

Scott
 
"Very funny, picking a guy because his family hasn't been walking upright as long as your own. "

Hey, Neandertals are people, too, right? :grumpy:
 
Hey, Neandertals are people, too, right?
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That's Australopithecus. You snooty tall-walkers always get it wrong. :mad:

Back to Woodsman's problem. If you like to hang out in bars, keep doing it. If you like to kayak, canoe, hike, or travel, do those things. Whether you meet someone or not, at least you'll be doing what you enjoy.

-Bob
 
Ren the devils trailboss said:
Try Church...Lots of women there...
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On the serious side, this thread IS in the Community Center, and we would like to keep it here, not send it to Whine & Cheese.

Consequently, I am removing an inappropriate comment. -- Esav Benyamin


On the serious side ... match.com.

I have dated three women from there, all have ended up in 2+ year relationships. You base the first date on more of what is on the inside then just a hot piece of .... that seems to make it more worth while. :D
 
"That's Australopithecus. You snooty tall-walkers always get it wrong."

I know all about Australopithecines -- I found the Missing Link in the Amazon.
 
Ren the devils trailboss said:
Try Church...Lots of women there...
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Personally, I would advise against this unless you yourself attend that same church. If you end up marrying a woman you find a church, you would only be hurting eachother. (Another topic/discussion)

I know how you feel. Definately try the outdoor activities and see what happens. If nothing else, you will be getting some good excercise and doing what you enjoy. :thumbup:
 
Josh Feltman said:
I think you've answered your own question.
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IDK, My summer school teacher was pretty hot, she was really nice and she said she goes clubbing everyweekend.
 
underaged! said:
IDK, My summer school teacher was pretty hot, she was really nice and she said she goes clubbing everyweekend.
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If she is a professional teacher she had no need to tell you that. I know, I'm a real prude but she didn't have the ethics to refrain from telling you anything like that. :eek: Adults need to make an example of themselves infront of younger peers.
 
She wasn't a regular teacher, she was a writer or something. I think she grew up here but is studying in Paris.
 
I have to advise against church for meeting women as well. The last girl I dated was a Christian. I, on the other hand, have priests tossing holy water on me as soon as I walk in a church. Needless to say, things were not going to work.

I've had pretty good luck with match.com. Sure you have to pay for it, but it still costs less than going to bars or clubs every weekend.
 
bars attract alcoholics and smokers. :D

you dont necessarily have to go there to meet loose women!:thumbup:

chat rooms are full of nice ones, some real/ some fake-:p

depends on what youre looking for in life! :cool:

you can come down to the NJ KCA and meet some "normal" people this sunday?

not to spam it up.

do what makes YOU happy!
 
I saw the following advice in another thread of this nature, on one of the knife forums, I forget which one.

Go buy some womens magazines, the ones with articles on where to go/how to meet good men. Go to those places. They are there looking for you.

(It does often happen when you stop looking. After a series of misadventures with women after college, I decided to cool it for awhile. In just days after that a cousin invited me to a party. I walked into the party and, boom, there sat the dream girl. My first thought was, "Whoa, she's way out of your league." After 34 years of marriage, I still think so sometimes.)
 
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