Question about women?????

"Go buy some womens magazines, the ones with articles on where to go/how to meet good men. Go to those places. They are there looking for you."
The logic behind this is extremely compelling. And doing it isn't even being manipulative, it's being cooperative.
 
If I remember correctly, Outlaw Biker had some interesting personal ads, namely, the women in there were writing from correctional facilities.

So, if you're in the market for some easy, rough sex, look no more.. :D

P.S. be careful.
 
all good things come to those who wait. I've spent the last 6 years looking around every corner. I thought I needed to look because I'm kind of quirky and figured the right ones would be few and far between. A week and a half ago I said !@#$ it I give up. And last night BOOM there she is. :)
 
The best way I have found to get a good woman is to check the obits, then go to the funeral home and ask the widow, "Hey, baby, you here alone?" ;)

(shamelessly stolen from Andrew Dice Clay)

Seriously, if you want a barfly, hang out in bars. You want a decent woman, hang out somewhere else.
 
I bet you'll find one when you least expect it. I don't think i've ever met anyone when i was really looking to. One of the places and ways i've met women when meeting women was not even on my mind:

At a fair trying to scam tickets off people with my friend James so we could ride the Zipper for the 5th or 6th time.

Yep... :p
 
RyanMalpiede said:

On the serious side ... match.com.

I have dated three women from there, all have ended up in 2+ year relationships. You base the first date on more of what is on the inside then just a hot piece of .... that seems to make it more worth while. :D


Here is a true story for you:

When I was 23 and recently moved to where I live now, I didn't know anyone and didn't like going to bars and stuff. I signed up for match.com without actually taking it too seriously, but I got a lot of responses. Still, I felt stupid meeting anyone in "real life" that I'd met online that way.

One guy I met and I hit it off really well as friends, but agreed that we weren't meant for each other "romantically" or whatever. We were too alike in some ways and too different in others. And then he moved eleven hours away, so meeting was out of the question anyway. Still, we started emailing regularly, then also snail-mailing because he couldn't email very often. We'd keep journals to each other in mini-notebooks and send them when they were full. We also started talking on the phone all the time. We considered ourselves best friends after a while; we told each other anything and everything, and got each other through some rough times.

Almost four years later, he was "passing through town" and convinced me to meet him in person, even though I was skeptical because I didn't want it to ruin the cool friendship we had if we didn't get along as well in person. That was a few months ago. He has since quit his job and moved in with me. Amazingly, we are still the best of friends, and even though we have had a few difficult adjustments, we managed to pull through and things get better and more comfortable every day. I can't imagine life without him now.

:)

~ashes
 
All of this internet has made me think- have you looked at Meetup.com? It's a way to get poeople of a common interest together in real life, and it's free. I haven't had the best luck with it, but I had to do a paper on it my senior year (professor was doing research on self-organizing groups and their effect on blah blah blah)
 
I dedicated alot of my life to avoiding Marrige living and working in some of the most out of the way places this world has to offer,Iam however now happily married and would not change things for the world,so not only will you meet women that are right up your street,if you stop trying so hard you will be unable to avoid them.
My advice to you about women?
BE AFRAID,BE VERY AFRAID! you won`t be single forever.
 
Gatherer said:
I dedicated alot of my life to avoiding Marrige living and working in some of the most out of the way places this world has to offer,Iam however now happily married and would not change things for the world,so not only will you meet women that are right up your street,if you stop trying so hard you will be unable to avoid them.
My advice to you about women?
BE AFRAID,BE VERY AFRAID! you won`t be single forever.
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I met my wife law school. Before that she was working as a hostess in a hotel wearing a cheongsam with a slit up to her armpits. Wish I had met her then.

Gotta find other places to meet girls, friend. Why not try those outdoor courses, shooting, hunting, birdwatching, plant collecting.........
 
Before I was married, I really enjoyed meeting chicks in clubs and going out with the party girl types.
And I still go out clubbing occasionally because my wife is one of those women that just MUST dance!
If she does'nt get to go dancing at least once a month she gets a bit depressed.

And some of those shady party-girls are very tough too.
Also, don't be so quick to judge them intellectually--you would be surprised at the depth of many of them.

Besides, it's far easier to teach a party-girl how to hike and shoot and fish than it is to teach a outdoors-good-girl how to party!

Good luck,
Allen.
 
I met a good girl at church once that started playing games...I believe its not where you meet or how but giving them the chance to prove themselves worthy. Then maybe..maybe youll get lucky and find one that lasts a good 6 years. I find they all go bad after that anyways =) Me and my current wife met at a party and both had a good time back then hiking and drinking and what not, now with 2 kids if it isnt low fat non alcholic and doesnt smoke its not aloud... i agree teach the party girl new tricks but dont get rid of all of her old ones either=) And yes you dont have to buy the cow if the milk is free, dont bring sand to the beach. And there had to be a board game you liked growing up, find a chick that plays games you enjoy)

I always enjoyed "RISK".... ;)
 
Bob W said:
That's Australopithecus. You snooty tall-walkers always get it wrong. :mad:

Back to Woodsman's problem. If you like to hang out in bars, keep doing it. If you like to kayak, canoe, hike, or travel, do those things. Whether you meet someone or not, at least you'll be doing what you enjoy.

-Bob

Thats as good an approach as any. And if you meet a single female its because she's doing the same thing you are.

I love target shooting with hand guns. In 1971 I was stationed at Ft. Sam Houston Tx. I used to go to a public range with my pistol called "A place To Shoot" on farm road 1604, just out side of town. One Saturday morning I see this long haired young lady shooting a Smith & Wesson K22. Nobody is with her, but nobody is talking to her. I keep looking over. She notices me looking. By chance I was shooting a Smith & Wesson Model 18. I figure what the hell, ask her if I can buy her a cup of coffee and we get into a conversation. Ends up we both love rimfire revolvers. We make a date for that night.

Now thirty-four years and three kids later my Wife Karen and I still shoot together, as well as canoe, camp, Hike, and with the last kid out of the house, chase each other around said house.


She even likes knives!!!
 
Do you have a dog? If you do, take it for a walk in the park or around town or wherever you live, if that's possible. I live in a small town, and having a large black, immaculately-groomed standard poodle tends to attract a lot of attention (although I don't do this for that reason, but I could! ;) ) Actually, I do it because I want to eventually train her as a therapy dog, once she is old enough and I can find classes for that around here.

Another thing, and this one I actually heard on "love connection" (hey, I was home sick and I was bored, so STFU! :p) ... try going to the grocery store and look for women who look like they might be single (look at what they are buying, lol) and then ask them if they know how to choose some kind of fruit (melons, peaches, whatever.) Then do your best to strike up a conversation. I think this is good because if she isn't single you won't look like an ass; you'll just look like a typical man who doesn't know how to judge ripe fruit.

Just a couple suggestions. ;)

~ashes
 
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