I've had the opportunity to travel a fair bit, and always been a fan of hot and spicy food, too. I've been able to eat the local levels of spicy foods in India, Thailand, China (Szechuan), etc. and whenever I go to an Indian restaurant (in the US) and they ask for 'spice level', I tell them "Indian-spicey, make it how
you would eat it", but there are a lot of folks on a whole different level (as evidenced by the proliferation of Nuclear/Biohazard/Weaponized Level IV type hot sauces available nowadays).
I'll be honest, I've never tried Ghost Peppers or Carolina Reapers (aside from some of those nuclear hot sauces). Habaneros are about the hottest rated peppers I've actually eaten (and those were fine), but my experience differs from yours. Food that went down hot, came out hot, too.
