RIP Duane Sitflyer

Jack Black

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I’m terribly sad to have to inform everyone that our friend, and longstanding Porch regular, Duane sitflyer sitflyer , has passed away, after being seriously ill for several months. Duane let me know of his critical condition in August, and we have been in very regular contact since then, until he became too ill to post a couple of weeks back. His wife informed me yesterday, that he had passed away peacefully, the previous night.

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Duane started posting on The Porch in 2011, and he later told me that I was his first friend here. He was an interesting guy, who had lived a life of adventure, including scuba-diving, skydiving, motorcycle camping, and serving his country. Despite the months of illness, he remained incredibly positive to the end, and was still posting here until a few weeks ago. I will treasure all the PMs we exchanged.

Many years ago, I posted a thread about refurbishing an old Frost's of Mora knife, which had been badly stored. It had a laminated steel blade, and became a special knife for me. I decided to give it away though, Duane being the recipient. He always said it was the sharpest knife he owned, and the one he'd take with him across the river.

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Around the same time, Duane sent me a package containing another special knife, which he'd made from the tip of the Victorinox Chef's Knife, he'd used aboard ships, all over the world. I have always treasured it, and will continue to do so.

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Duane and I were the same height, (and born the same year), but I would tease him about his huge mitts, which sometimes made the knives in his photos look tiny. I take an XL or XXL glove myself, but Duane's were bigger. When he took an interest in Lambsfoot knives, I had to send him a 'Big 'Un', and he really took to it, carrying it constantly in his final months.

After having a bunch of medical tests in the summer, it appeared that Duane would not be long for this world, but he remained incredibly positive, and was still cracking jokes, both on and off The Porch. "Buy the ticket, take the ride."

I know that many of us will miss Duane, he had a lot of friends here. My deepest condolences, of course, to his wife, at this incredibly difficult time.

If Andi Humppa should happen to come across this, Duane told me how much he had treasured their friendship, and that he thought of him often.

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RIP Duane :thumbsup:

In for a penny, in for a pound
 
What a moving eulogy, Jack. One that makes me wish I'd known him. May he rest in peace. And after the pain of separation fades, the good memories, the funny stories will remain. To have a knife he made and gave to you will help bring a smile as you remember them. Bless you, too.
 
What a moving eulogy, Jack. One that makes me wish I'd known him. May he rest in peace. And after the pain of separation fades, the good memories, the funny stories will remain. To have a knife he made and gave to you will help bring a smile as you remember them. Bless you, too.
Many thanks for your kind words :) :thumbsup:
 
Very sad news to wake up to this morning. Duane and I communicated periodically back in the day and we both belonged to another non-knife forum as well. In 2013 Duane gifted me this Buck 705 with an Aurum etch because he knew I was a fan of the 700 series knives. I have always treasured it.

Rest In Peace old friend.

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Duane got in contact with me about a month ago. He offered to gift me a GEC H30 because he read that I am an avid backpacking and outdoor enthusiast. I offered to buy the knife from him even though I wasn't really looking for the H30 but the H20. He was just so kind that I figured I'd help him out and buy his knife. Duane wouldn't have it. He insisted that I take it because the knife "needs a warm hand to take care of it." I eventually agreed to let him send me the knife but only if he let me send him a Christmas card to him and his wife in return. He agreed and sent me a set of Buck knives too for good measure. After that, I got to talking to Duane for a few weeks and he let me know about his condition and that he didn't have much time left. He told me all about his scuba diving adventures and how get got into collecting knives at a really young age. We used to speak all night because he couldn't sleep much and I didn't want to miss my chance at getting to know him before he signed off one last time. He stopped texting me back a little while ago, but I have been texting his account a few times just because I miss him. He was a really good person and I wish I would have met him sooner. The H30 that he sent me has been and will remain my primary blade that travels with me every time I head to the outdoors. That knife and Duane's memory will be carried with me until I also sign off one last time some day.

RIP Duane. I miss you lots, friend.
 
Very sad news to wake up to this morning. Duane and I communicated periodically back in the day and we both belonged to another non-knife forum as well. In 2013 Duane gifted me this Buck 705 with an Aurum etch because he knew I was a fan of the 700 series knives. I have always treasured it.

Rest In Peace old friend.

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That's a nice keepsake buddy :) I have this Buck that Duane sent me with the knife I showed above, which I call my Chef's Special - the special chef being Duane :) :thumbsup:

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Duane got in contact with me about a month ago. He offered to gift me a GEC H30 because he read that I am an avid backpacking and outdoor enthusiast. I offered to buy the knife from him even though I wasn't really looking for the H30 but the H20. He was just so kind that I figured I'd help him out and buy his knife. Duane wouldn't have it. He insisted that I take it because the knife "needs a warm hand to take care of it." I eventually agreed to let him send me the knife but only if he let me send him a Christmas card to him and his wife in return. He agreed and sent me a set of Buck knives too for good measure. After that, I got to talking to Duane for a few weeks and he let me know about his condition and that he didn't have much time left. He told me all about his scuba diving adventures and how get got into collecting knives at a really young age. We used to speak all night because he couldn't sleep much and I didn't want to miss my chance at getting to know him before he signed off one last time. He stopped texting me back a little while ago, but I have been texting his account a few times just because I miss him. He was a really good person and I wish I would have met him sooner. The H30 that he sent me has been and will remain my primary blade that travels with me every time I head to the outdoors. That knife and Duane's memory will be carried with me until I also sign off one last time some day.

RIP Duane. I miss you lots, friend.
Thank you very much for sharing that, I'm glad that you were able to get to know Duane, and I'm sure he appreciated your friendship :thumbsup:
 
Aw man, this sucks. Sorry to read about Duane's prolonged illness and passing, I had no idea. He was a great porch denizen , and he will surely be missed.

I am often guilty of not getting to know our members as well as I should. Many of us, myself included, will suffer in silence, not wanting to burden others with our pain or troubles. However, the porch is a unique place, that brings us all together with a single focus. Then we find out we're not so different, and we share many of the same highs and lows. Events like this remind us that someone's always here on the porch to lend an ear.
 
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