When you open the blade in one continuous motion, do you experience the same thing ?
When the blade clears the detent ball right before it locks open, there is no resistance on the blade like when it's on the detent ball. Are you sure the hitch isn't the detent ball trying to jump back on the blade ? If you close the blade with the lock bar/detent ball clearing the blade, does it drop shut ? Have you examined the inside of the lock bar to make sure it isn't boogered up ?
Don't have a clue what you mean by play in the blade.
Most of the 21's I have will drop shut if I push the lock bar over enough to clear the blade, not all of them though. Those along with my 25's/Inkosi's don't drop shut and have the same feel no matter how slow they're opened.