Ok, so I've had all day to let this consume me and I just have a couple of things to say.
I never intended to mislead or deceive anyone. Since I am relegated to sharking from a phone or a tablet on a good way, I look at fotki and decide which knife I want. If I can clearly identify the model ( sometimes I can't because I'm new) I type "I'll take the -----" and I copy it to be pasted later. I have read that they prefer the whole description and would love to comply and have tried to comply but copying on a phone is very very hard and time consuming, so I gave up on it. Where I went wrong yesterday was I only recognized the tuxedo HB as a HB, the bolstered one looked bigger to me or something so I only typed "I'll take the Hiking buddy, please". After posting, I scrolled up to see how much this was going to cost me and saw that there were 2 HB listed, so I went back and clarified that I wanted 02. On a normal day, I would have typed "I'll take the tuxedo HB" and we wouldn't be having this discussion. But on this day my wife was at work and I was watching our 4 month old, whom gets fussy and hungry late in the afternoon so while trying to stalk fotki I was a little distracted. When FBF actually happened, I had a bottle in her mouth held under my chin while trying to refresh and navigate the thread. It was a challenge. It didn't show that I edited and I would have mentioned it if I thought I was being dishonest but I knew in my heart the tuxedo was what I intended to get, I did my due diligence and was the first of all people to post, so I thought I was good.
This morning I woke up with a PM from Ken, explaining the situation and that they were going to offer the knife to the next person. I was good with that. But when I saw this thread, started by Andy, and how it painted me as a cheat, it hurt my feelings and upset me. Andy doesn't really take time to start many threads, it doesn't seem. He thought this was a big deal, and i guess it is since so many are upset about it, and I agree that some rules may need to be tweeked a little to even the playing field, but the fact that he ended his post suggesting cheating really bothered me. It made me feel like he doesn't see or understand the sacrifices and amount of time we put into FBF. He did not make me feel like an appreciated customer. Then some of the others chimed in, to be honest what they think doesn't really matter to me. It just hurt that Andy thought I was a cheat, kind of like when your dad is disappointed in you. So, I got angry and defensive. Reading Andy's post over a dozen times, he never actually called me a cheat, he inferred that it may be going on, but I can assure him that was not my intention. It doesn't read as bad to me now as it did when I woke up this afternoon (I work nights), but I'm still a little sour about it and I think it does imply that what I did was in an effort to be dishonest, but I wanted to make sure that he knows I didn't intend to cheat and that I'm sorry I flew off the handle.
A wise man taught me to never complain about something without offering a suggestion to fix it so here goes:
Make copying descriptions mandatory
Maybe include descriptions on FOTKI so those that stalk and have a tablet can copy over there. (I've never used fotki and don't know if this is even possible
I have experienced times where the order of the pictures and descriptions don't match up, this costs even more time to sort out so if care could be taken to avoid that
Maybe give a heads up early in the day what time FBF will actually be so that people can make arrangements and be able to dedicate their undivided attention to it.
Maybe eliminate the current format all together and do it as a lottery where we register with you after you determined how many knives you will make that week, u assign us a random number, and we pick knives based on that.
These are all just suggestions I thought I would offer, I'm not familiar with the logistics of your operation.
So to end, I'm sorry for those who witnessed my rant and for those whom I was hostile towards. I can assure you it won't happen again.
E