And I'm very much noticing hatred towards Aussies.
You guys have lots of beaches, hot chicks, a cool accent, and you call everyone "mate". What's not to like?
As for shipping outside of the U.S., I think that most of us recognize that the farther the package has to travel, the more likely the seller will get screwed. This is just a fact of life, and has nothing to do with Australia. The farther the package travels, the higher the likelihood of it getting lost or stolen, or of some customs entity stealing it. I don't have any data to prove it, but anecdotally it sure seems that the likelihood of encountering a fraudulent buyer increases with sales to some remote (from our perspective) part of the world. When a package gets tied up in customs for 3 months, the buyers sometimes blame the seller, who has nothing to do with it. When you add up all of these little factors - the risk of transit, the customs, the time lapse, the potential for fraud - maybe you can see why some sellers, including me, don't ship outside the U.S. I would rather sell to someone 200 miles away, whose purchase I can track every step of the way, and who has none of the risk I noted above, than to someone 3500 miles away. This has nothing to do with xenophobia. It's just grief avoidance, there is nothing wrong with that. I feel for you, but it's not our fault that Spyderco and Emerson don't make knives in Brisbane or Perth.
As for the "private" forum, there is no such thing. If you can access a forum, its all yours. So just because some goofball may have told you that something was private, it doesn't make it so. Rock on.