Smoke and Prayers for my Dad needed

I cannot put in to words how appreciative and thankful I am for everyone's help. We've been looking for some improvement, any really, but each day he says that he feels the same as the last. One day at a time right? My Mom and I are trying to stay positive for him and he's trying to do the same, saying little by little he'll get there.

That said, I think he is tired of being tired and resting so much (either laying down in bed or sitting on his sofa). We went over doing small exercises that he can do while sitting down, and even leg, arm, and back massages (picked up from Krav's thread) a couple of times a day.

This morning before his breakfast he got on his stationary bike for about 10 minutes on a light setting. He hasn't had much in the way of an appetite lately, but after his bike ride and sitting outside with him for a morning talk, he served himself a big bowl of cereal and watermelon.

Hoping for some positive improvement, even if little this weekend. Anxious about getting the results on Wednesday. Hoping and praying for the best.

Thank again, everyone. May you all have a wonderful and safe 4th of July weekend. And let those that you love know that you love them.
 
Been through this and know what you're feeling. My dad ended up passing due to a brain tumor 1.5 yrs ago. It's not anything I would ever wish on anyone, ever.

Your dad, however, will make it through this just fine. Prayers are headed your way brother. Know I'm probably no where close to you, but if there is anything I can do, just name it. I know you hear this a lot at times like this, but I do mean it.

-Dan
 
Sending prayers from my family and I to you and yours.
Keep your faith strong, and enjoy every moment.
 
Moshow9 your doing extremely well, prayers sent for you and your family. Keep the faith.
 
I for one know exactly what you are going thru. When you see Superman start to fail it is very upsetting to say the lease. The man that is always there always has the right answer to any problem. My brother please keep strong be by his side hold his hand give him a hug go for a ride and tell him exactly how you feel about him show him that all his hard work as a parent paid off. Let him know you will be there for Mom and for what ever he may need. Is it going to be easy NO is it fare NO can you answer why him NO. As tears roll down my face I ask you to be strong and take every second you have left with the best man in the world.
 
It seemed like tomorrow would never come and all of a sudden we're just about there. Dad's appointment is at 1:30. Going to be hard not being able to be there with him and my Mom, as I have a follow up with one of my own doctors.

He's had a bit more of an appetite lately and his spirits have picked up. Spent a lot of time with him this weekend and today. He watered the lawn in his front yard this morning and has been doing a bit of walking and stationary bike still. His back has been a bit problematic the last couple of days though (sciatic nerve) so rest has been a bit harder to come by.

Please continue to keep him in your thoughts and prayers, today and especially tomorrow. From my heart, thank you.
 
More smoke and prayers headed your way, keeping the positive thoughts going for your dad and your family.
 
Prayers for a good outcome wit his Doctors today
Wishing only the best for him and the whole Family.
Tim
 
My Dad and I, 2007
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And our world has been turned upside down.

The doctor he saw today confirmed that my Dad has a mass on his intestines and spots on the sides of his hips. Either cancer or a tumor. Is also anemic. Has appointments with an oncologist and other doctors next week and the week after. He lost another four pounds from last week to this week and doctor is concerned. Didn't want to tell him to only eat certain things because right now he says that is not the primary concern and wants to work on my Dad keeping his weight.

I think I read someone mention on here that cancer cannot survive with a high alkaline content in the body. How true is this and what can be taken to achieve this? Should this be attempted (how safe is it on the body) and should this be discussed with his doctors if this were to be attempted?
 
moshow9,
I wish I could give You some advise on the alkaline content.
I will tell You to keep on top of things with the Doctor care.
STAY STRONG FOR YOUR FATHER and MOTHER, DO NOT GIVE UP, NO MATTER WHAT.
WE WILL KEEP ON HOPING AND PRAYING FOR YOUR FATHER, YOUR FAMILY, THE DOCTORS AND NURSES.
p.s.
GREAT PHOTO.
 
Fight the hell out of this. I pray for you and your family, your Father to continue fighting, and healing, and to have the strength to ask for help when needed. We'll be thinking of you.
 
moshow9 said:
My Dad and I, 2007
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And our world has been turned upside down.

The doctor he saw today confirmed that my Dad has a mass on his intestines and spots on the sides of his hips. Either cancer or a tumor. Is also anemic. Has appointments with an oncologist and other doctors next week and the week after. He lost another four pounds from last week to this week and doctor is concerned. Didn't want to tell him to only eat certain things because right now he says that is not the primary concern and wants to work on my Dad keeping his weight.

I think I read someone mention on here that cancer cannot survive with a high alkaline content in the body. How true is this and what can be taken to achieve this? Should this be attempted (how safe is it on the body) and should this be discussed with his doctors if this were to be attempted?
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My thoughts and prayers for you. I have been into eating healthy for couple years now. When my wife was was waiting for her diagnosis of ovarian, lung cancer we did the whole alkaline diet. What it is basically is a vegatarian diet. No sugar, no meats, no processed foods. I have read that it works, and may also slow down things untill they come up with a treatment plan. My wife was and is (stage 5) it was very advanced, she didn't get any relief until she started chemo. There's a lot of info on alkaline diets, cancer diets that it would take me all day to explain what I read.

This time for you and your family is the most difficult part, they will get your father into some kind of treatment. I found out if I'm not optamistic, upbeat, positive, I'm of no use to my wife. Hang in there. I'll send my phone number via p.m. If you would like to chat a bit.
 
Krav said:
This time for you and your family is the most difficult part, they will get your father into some kind of treatment. I found out if I'm not optamistic, upbeat, positive, I'm of no use to my wife. Hang in there. I'll send my phone number via p.m. If you would like to chat a bit.
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That's in a nutshell, it's part of the, "...if you can't take care of yourself how can you expect take care of someone else. The positive vibes generate a feeling of well-being, with that comes comfort and and isn't that what we all want a little comfort and relief for our loved ones.

You gotta take it one day at a time and enjoy the little victories, you don't want to miss a moment, not just with your dad but with everyone. You can live in the moment or in the memories, when the moment's gone all you have is memories so spend as much time living in the moment, there's plenty of time for memories.
 
Oncologist was today. To add to to everything my Dad now faces additional challenges. As if what he has on his plate isn't enough. He may have cancer in as many as 5 different areas. Yet they are not calling it cancer or giving a diagnosis yet pending biopsies. This past week was a long one to get through, and next week so much is going to happen with whats to follow. He may even get admitted on Tuesday should the doctor feel it necessary after the biopsies. My Dad has a strong faith. But I also know he's scared, and hearing that additional news today..he was shocked and it stunned him.

I have asked and I have begged to trade places with him, to take this for him so many times and today even more so since finding out. Why can't I do more for him?
 
Sending more prayers. Hope is much better than fear. It's the difference between recovery or not. The good news is it sounds like your father is still young n fairly good health. This makes a huge difference in being able to endure the treatment needed. Keep your head up.
 
Continued prayer and hope for you and your family. Hang in there Brother.
 
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