Sometimes life doesn't go as planned...

I will think of you while I stare into the fire, that you are able to overcome your grief in time. Stay safe and healthy.

 

Nothing to add. Good luck to you.

 

That's a tough one. If the relationship is beyond repair personal counseling would support you and move you through the grieving process quicker. And try to establish\maintain patterns in your life so you feel less adrift during this period. You will now find out who your true friends are.

 

I would second what upnorth said about counseling. Counseling does not mean a person is weak anymore than going to a dr means you do not know how to take care of yourself. Sometimes a professional who is not emotionally involved can ask the questions that ring a note you had not considered. My counselor helped me to see that I had done nothing to cause the situation and it was a one person decision. Also helped me to know how to guide my children through a rough time. The questions helped me understand the difference between something that can be saved and something that just has to be moved on from.

EX was diagnosed bipolar and refused any and all treatment or help. It was her choice and I just had to make peace with it and make my life a place that I wanted to be in.

Bill

 

Bear how are you holding up ? I am a LPC, if you need talk shoot me an email for my phone number.

Joseph Merolle
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