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I think a lot of people here are missing the point. Are some cops downright disrespectful and don't deserve respect? Absolutely, Ive dealt with some. But IMO most are very courteous and very respectable. If a cop pulls you over and gives you a massive attitude do you really think things will go any better if you give them attitude back?
I've been in situations where I've dealt with both calm and respectful officers, and some downright nasty. But in the end it turned out ok for me, why? Just some simple respectful conversations.
Being courteous and respectful to a Police officer or anyone for that matter regardless of the situation is much more likely to have a good outcome than copping an attitude and giving someone disrespect.
When I was 14 I had two officers come running towards me and a group of kids. They looked around then pointed to me and said "you, get over here!" They then pulled me aside and said someone fitting my description was seen running away from the station after a rock went through the window.
I knew this was total BS, but I still maintained my cool. I ended every answer and statement with "officer" and said we were all over here for the last hour, but that I would ask around and if I heard anything would come straight to the station. They cooled down and went on their way.
About an hour later a kid who was about 1/2 my height and looked nothing like me stopped by us and said two cops stopped him and said he fit the description of somebody who threw a rock through their window.
So sometimes its just a game they play, its not nice, but welcome to the real world. That's how the cop's find people sometimes. If they stop and ask enough people randomly, sometimes they get lucky.
I've been in situations where I've dealt with both calm and respectful officers, and some downright nasty. But in the end it turned out ok for me, why? Just some simple respectful conversations.
Being courteous and respectful to a Police officer or anyone for that matter regardless of the situation is much more likely to have a good outcome than copping an attitude and giving someone disrespect.
When I was 14 I had two officers come running towards me and a group of kids. They looked around then pointed to me and said "you, get over here!" They then pulled me aside and said someone fitting my description was seen running away from the station after a rock went through the window.
I knew this was total BS, but I still maintained my cool. I ended every answer and statement with "officer" and said we were all over here for the last hour, but that I would ask around and if I heard anything would come straight to the station. They cooled down and went on their way.
About an hour later a kid who was about 1/2 my height and looked nothing like me stopped by us and said two cops stopped him and said he fit the description of somebody who threw a rock through their window.
So sometimes its just a game they play, its not nice, but welcome to the real world. That's how the cop's find people sometimes. If they stop and ask enough people randomly, sometimes they get lucky.