Surviving Debt...

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Research shows that a lot of folks will spend on average around 18% more with credit cards than if they paid cash.

As a longtime listener of Dave Ramsey and reader of his books, I can say that he has never used anything in the Bible as an excuse to not pay your bills.
 
I get cross-ways with Ramsey on the life insurance issue. My father in law bought into his buy term crap and had a heart attack 2 years later. Now I have an ailing in-law with no life insurance and no possible help from his son if and when something happens.

I do believe in reducing debt, house is mine, truck is mine, I'll have the office building where I work paid off in less than a year. It frees one significantly

David
 
David,

I think term makes sense for younger folks for sure... I have to research this more to speak more intelligently though...

TF
 
Congratulations on being debt free. I listen to DR; am not a Christian but respect his beliefs & find his message universal. We are down to one debt, the tractor, which will be paid for by mid year; house, farm & livestock are all clear.
We are phasing out of credit cards and shifting all spending to Debit cards (they have rewards points) which is in effect spending money you have. This despite never carrying a credit card balance from month to month for years.
Credit cards, some of which carry interest rates of 30% +/- are the modern equivalent of the company store, you can never dig out. One note on a previous post, Dave does NOT say to pay off the mortgage before college funding; refer to his "baby steps".
 
Bushman makes some points , read this-------------> The History of American Constitutional or Common Law with Commentary Concerning: Equity and Merchant Law by Dale Pond................as another man said "besides the bible the most important book you will ever read"
 
Well, after reading all the hoopla about Dave Ramsey I looked up his book on Amazon and bought it. Now I am more in debt than I was 10 minutes ago. It seems counterproductive to the whole "eliminate all debt" tone of the thread. But, if spending the $15.00 helps me save more than that over the next year it will have been worth it.
Strange, but right before I hit the purchase button I had the thought of what knife I could buy instead of the book. I'm sure some of you understand this, what with this being BF and all. Here's to financial freedom! (if nothing else it will make good tinder:))
 
I had to chime in on this thread. My Wife and I are on the Dave Ramsey plan and WOW. Honestly guys, give it a year and you will not be disappointed. We had CRAZY dept on credit cards and car payments, and now all we owe is our house. WELL worth it.
 
Go 2nd Amend,

I borrowed my copy from the library - CD's and all. I had not paid a dime - except for copies I gave away. I send one to a guy on another board just today! ;)

TF
 
We owe one one card and one vehicle, when the card gets paid off it moves from the wifes purse to my wallet.

I think a big thing for some people is that spending is emotionally gratifying, magic money from a magnetic strip. Feel better about not having money by pretending that you do have money.

My view on credit cards is they don't get used unless we are going to starve or freeze, my (no sarcasm) wonderful, beautiful and intelligent wife sees debt as the price for a "normal" life where last minute plane tickets costing much more than we have to spend are ok because in a few months and hundreds of extra dollars later it'll be paid off.

Next month my kids are going to stay with their grand parents, the wife's deployed, I'll be home alone, I've worked it out, spending ~$6 a day Which is cheaper than my old smoking habit cost me.

Being in my late twenties, looking back at the money I've spent on smokes and cigarettes alone, at least $30,000 wasted.

I think I'll start reading up on Dave Ramsey, thanks for this thread!
 
Some people don't see things the way that you and I do Gadgetaholic. You agreed to the terms, got the card, then bought stuff on it. You are obligated to pay. Some people will always look to get out of their responsibilities. That's why you hear so much about credit counselors and negotiating your debt. "It's not my fault. I was tricked!"

wrong.
 
Let me bring a few points up:
1.) Credit cards are not bad. Having cards with little or no balance really saved my ass the last couple of years where it was down to not having any cash, and needing to pay cetain things (house car, food). Yeah, it sucks that I now owe, but I kept them for emergencies and had big ones two years in a row.
2.) Having no debt is at odds with having a good credit score. Contrary to the "Finances for Dummies" explanation, debtors DO NOT like to see you owing money, what they like to see is money moving. They like to see credit accounts (CCs, lines of credit, etc), run up and payed off or almost off each month. That means you move a lot of money, and manage it well.
3.) You want a good credit score. It's used in finding a job (employers run credit checks because people with low scores are a higher theft risk), insurance premiums go up with poor credit, etc.
4.) With that in mind, unless you simply can't control yourself, keep your credit cards, especially if they have no annual fees. USE them each month. If nothing else, buy all of your gas on a card each month and pay it off at the end of the month. Some folks I know pay everything on their cards (including car and house payments) and just make one big payment to the CC at the end of the month. If you have several use them as gas cards on a rotating basis.

I started out getting a couple of cards in 1999. One had a $200, the other a $500 limit. No annual fee, but the percentage is high. BTW, a high precentage is not a big deal if you pay them off or almost off each month, it's more important to get a card that has no fees so you don't get charged even if you don't use it). My FICO score was 524 (abysmal). I used each card in turn to buy my gas each month and paid it off except for $20-$30 (it looks better to carry some balance, and the CC companies like it better, see why this is good in a minute here). I didn't finance anything until I had to buy a new truck in 2003. At that time, my FICO score had gone up to 673 -- that's just by paying my bills and using my credit. The CC company also upped my limit on one card to $2500, the other to $5500. In 2008, due to the aforementioned screwjob, I had to do some finagling and get a new car to bridge a gap where I wouldn't be able to make car payments, and would have lost my truck (both of which would devastate my credit), so I traded the truck on another car before anything got reported to the credit bureaus. At that time, my FICO score had gone up to 753. Again, just by paying bills and paying my credit cards down to almost nothing each month.

Yes, it's a game, and if you don't play, they penalize you for it. I don't like it, but I've put a lot of time in to understand it.

Also Vec brings up a good point, and that is, running a business is a different animal than personal finance. You have to take risks in business, and to be blunt, you need to borrow money. You'll never get far in business unless you use OPM (Other People's Money). All of the billionaires and even millionaires that made it in business did not do it by using their own money. The upside is, it's far easier to get credit as a corporation than as a person. This is because lending institutions know that as a person, your money making ability is basically limited to your income. As a business, the more money you have to work with, the more you can make. Again, it's a gamble.

If you don't have the guts, or are lazy or a half-asser, don't even consider your own business. If you can come up with a couple grand in scratch to start a corporation properly, you can have all the credit you need in a few months.
 
Go 2nd Amend,

I borrowed my copy from the library - CD's and all. I had not paid a dime - except for copies I gave away. I send one to a guy on another board just today! ;)

TF

That's a great difference between savers and spenders. Savers first ask - how can I get X for the lowest cost or free. Spenders just buy it.

I was poor when growing up. I learned at a young age the value of compound growth. A dollar saved today will be worth much more in the future - if invested properly.

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Congratulations! Pay off debt don't spend money you don't have. There is a lot of freedom in not owing people money.
 
I been debt free my whole life. When I was young, my parents took all the money I made and invested it. I was always broke when I was younger, but today I have a net cash worth of about $230,000 with no debt. Today I just invest in CD's which nets me around $3,200 - $6,800 a year in interest.
I also have a 401K at work which is invested in all high risk stocks. Its really nice because now I can buy into just about any hobby.
Here are a few things I did right:

When I use a CC I always paid it off every month.
I finally started using debit cards and ditched the CC.
I never bought anything I could not afford (or pay off every month.)
I had great parents who had 7 kids and taught as all to save money and invest wisely.
 
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When I use a CC I always paid it off every month.
I finally started using debit cards and ditched the CC.

This is really confusing me - several people have posted about always clearing their CC balance each month, and having got rid of the CC or planning to get rid off the CC.

Why?

I just can't think of any bad aspects to a credit card IF you are able to clear the balance every month - you are getting interest free credit and the convenience of the CC. For those people that can't help themselves and spend money on the CC that they can't afford - they end up paying a lot in interest and may want to consider getting rid of the CC, but those that don't have that problem just don't have a reason to dislike that CC.
 
This is really confusing me - several people have posted about always clearing their CC balance each month, and having got rid of the CC or planning to get rid off the CC.

Why?

Honestly, I think they either don't know or don't care that doing that helps, not hurts, your credit.
 
Congratulations on paying off you debt, TF! That's really a lot bigger accomplishment than many can understand. And the feeling... great!

Saving money and planning expenses is a lifestyle, one that many still have to learn. All my life the guys around me have made fun of me (or on the other hand, asked me for advice) on how to be more responsible with money. I have no secrets; all of it is just common sense and commitment to the task.

The first thing I tell my buddies: quit smoking.

The next thing: quit eating out. I bought a commercial grade vacuum sealer and buy meat that is on sale, or large pieces in bulk and butcher/repackage it the way I want.

Me and mine can eat a small sirloin of 8 oz. ( $2.97 a lb.) two frozen vegetables (.25 each per serving), a bread roll (.20) and a pitcher of iced tea (.20 a pitcher). That's less than $2.50 for a 1/2 lb. steak dinner!

I buy my pork loins at Sam's for $1.80 a lb., so using that same model, I can put a 1/2 lb. lean (all meat, no bone) chop
on the table for about $1.75.

Compare that to a Whatburger with it's 1/4 patty, no veggies, no drink, for $3.89.

Those are just a couple of examples. But the food strategy alone is often overlooked, and sticking to it will save literally thousands a year. It is easy to see how; I read somewhere that the average cost of eating out is $9 a head. Even if you only cooked one meal a day in the house, assuming an average on the plate of about $2, you would save $7 per meal.

With two people, it's $14 a meal, and over a month that's $420, just for two guys at one meal each! No go to two meals, assuming that many will still eat lunch out with business associates... you can see it's an incredible multiplier.

Quit wearing name brand clothes! Most of today's clothes have labels by people I have never heard of, nor have any of my associates. I quit wearing Levi's when they crossed the $25 barrier and went to cheaper fabric. Also, they are manufactured under contract overseas, just like all the other pants. I go this tip from a buddy that worked in a men's store years ago. Don't buy name brand clothes, but buy clothes that fit you well. Everyone will notice a good looking shirt that fits you well, no one will pull the collar back and look at the label.

Those are just a couple of ideas. I have lived that way for years, and am debt free. My house and vehicle have been paid off for years. I have no medical debt. My business is debt free. I have no credit card debt, nor any other kind of debt. In this difficult economic climate I cannot tell you what a comfort that is to me. If I had a large debt base to service, I would have to shut down my business.

Let me bring a few points up:
1.) Credit cards are not bad. Having cards with little or no balance really saved my ass the last couple of years where it was down to not having any cash, and needing to pay cetain things (house car, food). Yeah, it sucks that I now owe, but I kept them for emergencies and had big ones two years in a row.
2.) Having no debt is at odds with having a good credit score. Contrary to the "Finances for Dummies" explanation, debtors DO NOT like to see you owing money, what they like to see is money moving. They like to see credit accounts (CCs, lines of credit, etc), run up and payed off or almost off each month. That means you move a lot of money, and manage it well.
3.) You want a good credit score. It's used in finding a job (employers run credit checks because people with low scores are a higher theft risk), insurance premiums go up with poor credit, etc.
4.) With that in mind, unless you simply can't control yourself, keep your credit cards, especially if they have no annual fees. USE them each month. If nothing else, buy all of your gas on a card each month and pay it off at the end of the month. Some folks I know pay everything on their cards (including car and house payments) and just make one big payment to the CC at the end of the month. If you have several use them as gas cards on a rotating basis.

With ten years in the credit business, (construction/housing loans), I can say all of those comments are solid gold.

Well done. All true, no speculation, all spot on. If there was a sticky for credit management, that should be the first post.

I don't know if you were ever in the industry CP, but that's the best explanation of card debt management I have seen outside of the bank. And #2 is the most often misunderstood aspect of credit card score rating and management. Money flowing through your accounts in a timely fashion goes to demonstrate to a prospective lender that you are able to manage debt over a period of time.

Paid off debts could mean that you used lottery ticket money, an inheritance, or borrowed privately to do so. Creditors want a track record. Lack of track record, or a history demonstrating the ability to pay in a timely manner will cost you credit score points, making all of the bad things you pointed out come true. For that reason, I keep a small revolving debt (less than $100 balance) on my one credit card at all times.

Again, good job.

If you don't have the guts, or are lazy or a half-asser, don't even consider your own business. If you can come up with a couple grand in scratch to start a corporation properly, you can have all the credit you need in a few months.

I would differ with you on this one, except the remarks on having the guts or being lazy. Or a half ass. Those are true. :thumbup:

With small businesses skyrocketing, most banks and vendors are very reluctant to lend money or extend credit. They all want a two year history of successful business, and it has to be vetted. So no "I worked out of the house and put the money back in the business... that's why it isn't on my tax returns".

Some vendors are getting around the problems of extending credit the same way one of my construction supply companies do it now. They require that the owner/principle of the company guarantee the account, even if it is a corporation or LLP, or LLC. No personal guarantee, no credit. My shingle supplier told me last month that they lost about 1/3 of their active accounts, most due to lack of payment, some due to business closings.

My bank has another take on how to determine credit eligibility. Same as the bank of one of my sometime business partners: no credit to anyone's business that is under two years old, and the company has to have the tax returns to back up their claims of black ink. The amount of the credit extended will be determined by the success shown on the tax returns, as well as the retained earnings.

It ain't easy being self employed these days. I am glad I have 25+ years in business, not 25 months...

Robert
 
Talfuchre,

Congrats. That is awesome. My wife and I have been loosely trying to get our debt paid off. Looks like we're having to step it up and get gazelle intense about it.

We've paid off all of our credit card debt except one (unfortunately had the highest balance) and just got a notice from the credit card company that they have raised our interest rate significantly. They must have also recalculated our payment schedule because the monthly minimum has shot up over double. That hurts big time.

Anyway, congrats, you are inspiring.

Charlie

Better than I deserve.
 
Bushman 5, could you please clarify what the expected outcome of sending the letters you reference is? Are the banks seriously going to let you slide based on the letters? How is the original credit ap or the signed charge receipts not valid or binding? In light of the recent proof that banks are organized crime and the thousands of folks who were given loans they could not afford and as a consequence have now lost so much, I have no quarrel with anyone treating them as they treated us I'm just confused as to how these letters are supposed to work and why. Thanks.
 
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