I don't mean to be confrontational but it seems that I should clarify my statement a bit -- in particular, what I meant by "private conversation" and "inappropriate". I'm fairly precise in my choice of words. I did not say, nor mean to imply, that chat room conversations are in any way privileged or confidential. You're right on one count, Gene
: "Every member of the forum
could have been there and seen that." (The emphasis is mine.) For those who may not be familiar with chat, when in a chat room, the list of other participants is displayed. In other words, unlike a bulletin board, when you make a statement in a chat room you know who is there to see it. I think Spark's analogy, "It's like talking to coworkers or chatting in a bar", is right on point. Although such exchanges are not normally privileged or confidential, most people will weigh what they say in light of the others who are present.
Originally posted by GeneL74:
I personally wasn't there and cannot say what was or wasn't said, but I think you just cleared it up for us. That sounded like you just admitted that there was negative things said about Lynn in the chat room.
You're wrong, Gene. There is no QED -- I wasn't there to learn what was said either. My objection was made on principle. Have you ever heard the one about the meaning of assume?
These things were said publicly...
Here again I take issue with the broad use of "publicly". Yes, the chat room is public in the sense that it is open to all. Chat room conversations however, as Spark pointed out, are not meant to be broadcast but are rather intended for the smaller audience that is in attendance.
...and I think it has probably hurt Lynn's feelings more then anything.
I can't say whether or not Lynn's feeling were hurt by his learning that people were talking about him in chat. If they were, it is a shame but I doubt whether that was anyone's intention. If he was hurt, however, it is Richard's unfortunate mention of the chat conversation that is to blame. Otherwise, how would Lynn have learned of it?
I'll rephrase my original statement to say that whatever was said in the chat room should have remained there. I still maintain that to repeat it here was inappropriate.
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[This message has been edited by bcaffrey (edited 01-06-2000).]