I've been digging up my yard, prepping garden areas and today as I was swingin the pick I was thinking about my good friend Nathan.
There was a guy I worked for who owns a bike shop and I ran that shop for him for about 7 years...actually, I probably ran the shop for 5 years and wrenched for two of them.
Anyway, there were a number of things relating to his character that made me choose to leave, but none of those things influenced my respect for his very positive attributes. Primarily, he was a generous kind of person. In particular, he had a real fondness for lost puppies.
As the store manager, or whatever title you could describe me as having, his choices for new employees was confusing to say the least. He would hire people who were not what many would regard as 'employable'. For me, this really created a lot of extra work. I'd constantly have to make corrections, find things that were stashed in the wrong spot, and answer the same questions over and over again.
There was a young guy that was hired who loved bikes. He was obsessed with them. He suffered from Asperger's Syndrome and there really wasn't any job that he could do at the shop that we could rely on being done right, so we all kind of pulled together around him to ensure his lack of ability didn't imperil our customers.
He stuck around for about a year, and it was frustrating for me the whole time- I'm a person who prioritizes efficiency, and having him around seemed like a punishment.
Looking back, though, I think about those times a lot. I think about what I learned about the challenges people face, who really have no control over their situation, and I learned to value people for who they are without resorting to objectifying or labelling them in any way.
Nathan is a much more pleasant person than my old boss, and he also maintains the kind of empathy that raises up the underdog and gives everyone the benefit of the doubt. Having been self employed for almost twenty years now, it's hard to imagine having a boss, but if I did I can imagine working for Nathan. I guess I sort of do, but I think you know what I mean.