I think we (oops) missed Gene's point: being that "lowballing" is not the buyer's action, but the seller's. Like a bait-and-switch.
Thanks Gene.
Personally, here's my take on lowballing - it's never happened to me.
OK, here's my take on negotiating a price:
You have 3 kinds of sellers out there:
(I know you guys are going to like this one


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1. used car salesman
--- out to make a fast buck
--- way overpriced intentionally, knows that you will try to talk him down.
--- if you persist, you can bargain, but you will go up against LOTS of pressure.
2. honest abe
--- puts up his best price
--- offended by lower offers, won't budge
--- won't sell except on own terms, or special circumstances.
3. traders/dealers
--- bargain hunters
--- always trying to strike a deal, move inventory
--- may not have high markup, but because of high inventory, every little bit adds up.
Having said this, I want to point out that people can be all three types at different times. I would classify myself in my last 3 trades/sales as "trader/dealer", then "used car salesman", then "trader/dealer" again. There are times that I have been an honest abe, but usually I don't because I really like to bargain - as both a buyer and seller.
It's like earning your keep. The problem comes when you get a bogus offer (too high or low) that is clearly ridiculous. However, even when I've had instances like that, with a little time, I was able to bring the value closer to a realistic offer.
I like to think that there are a few people out there who really got a good deal at my hands. Perhaps I got a knife at a lower price and was able to pass the savings to them. Sometimes it dribbles down my way. I'm ok with that as long as neither situation is "the norm".
I get aggravated with sellers/buyers who are in it just for the money transacting hands. Or with those that only bark for deals, deals, deals. Or those that consistently pressure and badger. I've not been burned yet, and hope it stays that way.
There have also been many times when I have made an offer and the response was "Ok. You got it" right away. Made me wish I had investigated the sale/trade a little better.
I figure, it will all add up in the end. Everybody gets their turn at the table...
Dan