My issue with the young bloods, which I'm typically not vocal about, is that, unlike adults, they often don't have enough experience or restraint to know when to stop, and there's often a whole heck of a lot of just spewing the contents of their minds out onto the forums, uncensored and unedited. That's true of adults as well, but I'll admit, as a moderator on an airsoft forum, which is peopled almost entirely with teenagers, this forum is refreshing precisely because it does NOT have a lot of kids.
Another issue is that, in some of the kids' cases, he actually violated forum rules (and the LAW) to join. To me, that's already demonstrating a lack of respect for the community. We TOLERATE his presence, but that doesn't mean he should abuse the privilege. I've already seen the relative quality of the snark thread go down quite a bit in some respects as a result. The other thing that makes me a little concerned, TBH, is that MM keeps hurting himself. I've never met such an accident-prone individual. That's also indicative that someone either isn't learning from his mistakes, or seriously needs to take a step back and give some serious thoughts about self-control. So that's all the reasons why I think JT wasn't completely out of line with getting frustrated, and I've definitely seen more than a few occasions when the kids have helped contribute to less than ideal situations.
That all being said, however, I don't mean to say that MM or the other younger members should be booted or anything, and I do think that, while James' point wasn't entirely out of line, the way he said it was definitely harsher than it perhaps needed to be. More, I've actually been fairly impressed with MM's willingness to learn, and his behavior and respectfulness seems to me to have improved from the time he's spent here. Part of my concern is that, if we have younger members, it probably behooves us to set good examples, and this group can get fairly rowdy, in fairly adult ways. After all, if we're concerned about the kids' behavior, we could do worse things than help them learn to do better. While I personally prefer not to do TOO much ribbing, and sometimes it can get taken the wrong way (as with a poorly done comment of mine that I think made Todd angry, which I still feel bad about

), and in MM's place I might be a little more careful with the things that I say, the fact is that he DOES get ribbed a lot. Part of that is because he keeps hurting himself, but frankly, if we're gonna dish it, he should get to give a little back.
My 2 cents (or .02 dollars).
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