Even the 12% peroxide did basically nothing to the grey dye after sitting in it all day, so I decided to give up on bleaching the dye out.
Since that dye isn't coming out I knew that what I was planning wasn't going to work out.
With that in mind I came up with a plan to achieve something decent looking using the dye I already have ( I'll save the stuff I ordered to try on some white smooth bone sometime in the future)
1st I gave it a 10 minute bath in the simmering chocolate brown RIT dye, then polished it aggressively by hand with some green compound on a blue Scott towel, from there I torched it all over with a little butane torch lighter to give it some other tones.
Now a word of warning here, I got the bone a little too hot next to the bolster which caused the bone to peel up a bit.
I put it back in the simmering dye for 5 minutes while I thought about how I'd fix the warp, and to my surprise I got very lucky as the warp was completely gone when I took it out of the dye.
After the last dye cycle and good rinse then WD40 bath and air compressor I gave it a final less agressive hand polishing and then a vigorous buffing with some beeswax on an old wool sock.
I am quite pleased with how it turned out, I wanted a brown of some kind with definition and color variation which I achieved.
Because of the existing dye and because I think it's just an inherent issue with the RIT chocolate brown it's hard not to get subtle purplish tones, but I did the best I could to counter them.
Ideally I wish I could have replicated Case's " vintage bone ".