Just weld on the rod and then grind in from the sides to make a 1" long by 1/2" wide tang. The change in length won't be that bad. BTW, if you melt the copper when attaching the rod, you are really getting things way too hot. With some ca and a bit of skill, you should be able to weld the rod to the tang without ruining the existing HT. A MIG welder is an advantage here. Wrap the blade in a wet rag while welding the tang extension.
Now, next time follow this procedure:
1) Read up on general knife making procedures and become familiar with them first.
2) Decide what style knife you wish to make
3) Read up on that style and learn how it is built.
4) Draw up full size plans. Posting them here will get a lot of advise ( you don't have to take it, but it is good to hear from folks who have done it before).
5) Write down a full plan of the process you will take to make the knife. It should detail when each step will be done. Again, posting it here may avoid problems later.
6) Keep showing photos of the progress, and ask questions before you do a step if you aren't sure.
7) Take your time, no need to rush a project done too soon.
8) Master the basics before tackling advanced projects.