Honestly, now that I think of it, the color and size make a huge difference. Case in point: My sister's a lawyer, kinda girly, never really cared much for "guy" things. But when I was in the service, she was doing criminal law stuff as part of her training at her firm, and just inexplicably one day, wanted to learn to shoot; maybe all that time spent in seedier parts of Detroit. She started pestering me about it, so we went to a range. That was three years ago. I bought her a stainless-handled Spyderedge Delica 4 first, whose handle scales and clip she immediately bedazzled. It looks outrageous, but all her girlfriends love the thing! A cop outside of court told her it was the cutest thing he'd ever seen. Nobody takes it seriously. She got her CCW here in Michigan, (easy to do in her line of work,) and so for her last birthday, I spent part of my bonus and bought her a stainless slide, pink composite frame Glock 26. Same reaction. People laugh. They completely ignore the fact that she's carrying a subcompact 9mm., a knife just under 3" long, and two reloads! The court officers think it's a hoot that the extension plates on the bottom of her magazines are pink, too (she bought replacements so they'd match). Nobody pays her any mind, and she's armed! An extreme example to be sure, but I think it's the combination of seemingly inoffensive weapons, and my little 5'4" 80lb. sister carrying them.