This is an interesting thread, and it gives me a chance to post the question from a different perspective.
I'm hearing-impaired, and have been since near birth (if not at birth). As expected, the intensity of sound is somewhat attenuated, but I also have a narrower passband of audible frequencies. Because of that, I ALWAYS have to change my ringer from the standard "beep beep" to something that plays music....and I put it on the highest setting so that I can hear it over the background noise (e.g., in the car). The only exception to that is when I am at work -- I put it on the lowest setting since it is so quiet here that I can hear the ring at that setting.
However, I do know that people tend to be annoyed by the non-standard ringtone ("Spring Concerto #3?", by Vivaldi). Do you have any suggestions for how I can accomodate the environment around me while still satisfying my requirement of being able to hear the phone?
Additional info: I don't carry the phone on my belt or in my pocket (except occasionally), so vibrate is out.
Thanks,
Matthew