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Sorry, perhaps German language thinking stood in the way of English language writing ... to but it bluntly, I got into one of those bad patches you tend to get into when you try to achieve something that is hard to achive, and I thought: whats the point of losing weight when my hubby stays as fat as he is ...^ i am having a little difficulty understanding what you are trying to say in certain parts of your post above.
Yeah, it is not logical, but it seemed so at the time ...
Which is a shame, because I really had a good run then - didn't lose much weight but that was because I gained a lot of muscle mass.
Now my husband started losing weight, and I sort of trot along trying gain momentum to jump back on my track (if it were not for the 40th wedding anniversary of my parents last weekend, I'd have lost some. I probably really have, but I learned not to step on the scales after big parties. Though I have been very careful about what I eat and how much this time.)
So I really am losing weight now, but I know I can do it more efficiently. But instead of giving up now (I don't get to my efficient phase - whine), I just get on with it and I am confident it will get more efficient over time.