I'd vote for the Military. It's a very large knife in profile, but surprisingly slim and light. I like the full flat grind better than the much shorter hollow grind on the Wegner and Starmate. It's also tip-down with a great big hole, which makes it faster to deploy than the other two, in my experience. The 440V's the best production stainless you can get, though the Starmate also offers it. The grip has the most versatility of the bunch, letting you "choke up" for precision cutting. I think the Military's a fairly ugly knife, but I don't consider any of these three a winner in looks. Where it shines is in pure performance per ounce.
I own all three and I don't think you could go wrong with any of them, but the Military's my top choice.
-Drew