Ren, I'm sorry that in this day and age, people look down on your family and your son and can't accept him or your family.
I'm a born and raised MD boy. My parents grew up in Baltimore, moved out to the counties gradually, and ended up in what has now become a thriving town outside of Baltimore. My father almost took a job in Alaska on the pipeline when I was a baby. When I was about 4, they moved to where I live now. My parents had planned on just buying property and selling it and moving on to new greener pastures. What kept them where they are now is that my baby sister died of SIDS when I was 9, and they've just stayed in the area.
I had the opportunity of buying an apartment in Ocean Sh***y MD, and was offered several management jobs on the spot at a job fair down there, but stupidly did not accept (the down payment I had was spent on dumb crap, it would have been a life experience, and a fun one at that). I have some CC debt that I am clearing down, because of the debt, my credit is not what I want it to be, but I can still get an apartment. I guess the reason why I am still feeding off my parents (I do pay rent though), is because I am just a lazy bastid. Even though my house is pretty hectic, I still love my family, and it's nice to come home and get a good meal and a hug.
I love to travel, and have visited most of MD, DE, WV, VA, PA and NJ. I am blessed to be working for Uncle Sam, in a job where I can be transferred or promoted (as long as I stay off BF

)anywhere in the world. I've been looking at North Carolina, the midwest, Maine. MD is just too goofy. Right now I'm just looking for cheap living costs, and beautiful vistas, mainly good fishing and hiking etc.
In the near future, after I get my debt cleared down, I am probably going to see if I can get a townhouse in Baltimore close to work. I had planned on either moving to Delaware, or Hanover PA, but with the option of working anywhere in America, I can just open an atlas and point...