JayDeep,
I think I understand where you're coming from. Growing up, we never had sharp knives in the house. We mistreated our knives. All edges were damaged to a heavy degree. We didn't cut; we sawed.
I eventually acquired a fillet knife that I kept somewhat sharp with a tiny soft Arkansas stone. I eventually found myself using it to cut meat in the kitchen. It cut so smoothly and easily, the difference between it an our kitchen knives was astonishing.
Then I acquired a cheap Chicago Cutlery chef knife. Oh man, what a difference on the veggies! It quickly went dull but too late: I was spoiled. No way was I going to spend gobs of time sharpening my kitchen knife on that dinky Arkansas stone. So I began my quest to find a sharpening system.
I purchased a cheap electric sharpener, and ran a trash knife through it for testing. That sharpener totally ate up the knife, making it worthless. It was horrific. Be very cautious with cheap motorized sharpeners!
Then I purchased a WorkSharp Ken Onion sharpener. It could easily sharpen my kitchen knife to the degree I wanted (Note: the WorkSharp machine has other issues making it a less-than-optimal sharpening system that I'll not get into here.), but it was so much of a hassle to pull out and setup that I didn't use it all that often, and my edge was soon dull again.
Then I found the "perfect" sharpener. It was the Rada Quick Edge, a pull-thru wheel sharpener. I could easily keep my kitchen knives (I had multiple by this time) sharp enough for my taste with just 5-7 light, quick swipes of the blade through the sharpener (after initial re-profiling, of course, which took anywhere from 100-200 strokes on my kitchen knives, but more than 300 on my beloved fillet knife).
Then I started questioning why it was that so many people on the internet were claiming "I sharpen my knives, then I don't have to do anything to them except a few swipes on a steel once every week or two, until they get dull enough that I resharpen in 8-12 months." Why did I need to run my knives through the sharpener after each use to keep them sharp? And why was it that attempting to use a steel on my knives made things much duller? I suspected the edge produced by the pull-thru sharpener was weak, easily deformed and damaged. And steeling didn't work for me because 1) I didn't know how to do it properly, and 2) the edge produced by this pull-thru sharpener is convex.
Then I began to ask myself, "what will I do if I ever purchase a knife utilizing harder steel?" I decided I didn't actually need harder steel, didn't want to spend the money required for a sharpening system that could handle harder steel, and didn't want to waste time learning how to use that sharpening system. Well, guess what - I purchased an expensive knife constructed from harder steel, and research indicated none of the systems I had on hand could properly sharpen it. Sigh... Time to upgrade and learn.
Some people claim that learning to sharpen freehand on stones isn't all that difficult. This has not been the case for me. YouTube sharpening videos make it look soooo easy, but the guys doing it are pros, and many warn that it's harder than they make it look. The internet is full of confusing, contradictory information on the subject. I could have reached the skill level required to freehand sharpen my kitchen knives on stones to the same level as my pull-thru in less than two hours if I'd had an in-person tutor guiding me through the process. But I didn't have that luxury, and so wasted many, many fruitless hours trying to learn. And it's all because I missed one fine point. I'm still learning but I've far surpassed what could be done with the pull-thru sharpener. My experience on stones made it easy to figure out how to properly use a honing rod. Now, rather than sharpening my kitchen knives with a pull-thru sharpener, I use stones for sharpening and a ceramic rod for maintenance. I'm still a bit slower on a rod than I was with the pull-thru (both require care to maintain proper pressure and angle for best results, FYI), but I'm improving, and I don't have to hone the knife after each use. So I now have much sharper kitchen knives and spend less time on maintenance. But the cost... ouch. And the time... ouch. And the frustration... ouch. Is it worth it? You'll have to decide for yourself. If you decide to go this route, do yourself a favor and find someone who can train you in person. You might save yourself a lot of time and some money too.
I'm a newb. Take everything I say with a grain of salt. YMMV.