As i stated, I am not looking for equal trade value. I am willing to trade more value for less value to get a knife I desire. But if I am trading 2 for 1, or possibly 3 for 1, I would require the trade partner to send their trade first as I have more on the line to lose. If members with much higher established feedback than mine don't like the trade rules, I'm OK with that too. They don't have to participate in a trade.