tough choice.
1st question, hows your training? do you train in a martial art? which one? CA has a LOT of good instructors in edged weapons and unarmed fighting, so you have a good opportunity for training their.
gear should be secondary. if you can do it well without good gear will make it better, but toys are not a replacement for skill.
2nd thing, whats legal? if you live in some counties you may be able to score a ccw. if you cant, i have heard that carrying a consealed firearm in a misdemeanor in CA, DONT TAKE MY WORD FOR THAT THOUGH.
knives like the cuda maxx, emerson commander, super commander or CS 6 inch voyagers are legal. surefire hi-intensity flashlights are legal too.
those are not bad options for legal carry. not as good as a gun, but legal and not bad at all provided you can use them.
3rd thing...Illegal carry. consider something small if you really want to carry. just remember if you use it all **** is likely going to break loose on your ass. you may survive to go to court, and if you do, have a good lawyer on retainer.
Read Marc McYoung's book on street evasion and escape. that may help you avoid using any weapons you dont want to use, and possibly help you learn how to clear out of an area if you do.
Have you thought of starting a buisness so you can "carry large amounts of cash to make deposits" and get a CCW?
as to sticks, police usualy don't pay attention to koppo sticks and kubbotons. If you get something like a v-gar, who will know you have it on you till you use it.
This brings me to #4, behavior while carrying illegaly to not get busted.
dress nicely and be polite to people and maybe even be nice to policemen as you go about your buisness. If you like dressing in grunge and leather with the 3 piercing on your face with the chain going down to your nads you are going to attract attention.
Sorry, thats the way thing work.
I have to ask? do you drink or do drugs? If you are from CA and you do neither of those 2 thing, your weird.
I know some people like to smoke weed, if you do, thats cool. I don't have any problem with it, I dont do it, but lots of people do.
If you are carrying illegaly, or even legaly, your habbit ends.
You are not allowed to get stoned and go armed. that may make you do or say something stupid.
Doing stupid things = attention from police.
see...?
we want to let the nice policeman go on with his day, we want to just wave hi, tell him a nice joke about 3 nuns entering heavan washing with holy water any part of their body that touched a dick...and them leave him alone and have him leave us alone.
do something stupid and that will get you a threshold inqury, "hi I'm officer X, what are you guys doing here?" which can easily lead to a pat down and then as you get frisked...
and the cop finds you with a koppo stick, cuda maxx, commander and a paracord garrotte and the policeman wonders "why is this guy better armed than I am...???"
that kind of thing leads to questions which you probably would like not asked which can get to be a bitch when the policemen ask if you have anyother weapons and show them the .25 beretta they forgot that was tucked behind your big TEXAS belt buckel.
(for some reason police go ape when they ask if you had any other weapons and you show them that yes, yes you DO have more...wonder why)
in summary, train, then get gear.
find what gear is legal.
Find what you can get away with without attracting attention. you may not be able to carry that colt 1911. you man have to slum with a baretta .25 if thats all you can hide.
Dress nicely and attract no attention to your self that would make police or anyone else go HUMMMMMMMMMM?????
you may be surprised that you can gather an effective loadout without breaking the law provided you can use it all.