He has an expensive folding knife, so what?
He doesn't "appreciate" it? How can you tell?
I had "expensive" fountain pens and watches around that age.
Did I lose them/break them? Regularly.
Did I appreciate them? Oh yes. I know the pleasure of using a well made fountain pen, watch or knife, probably more so than a person who never had one.
How can you tell the difference between a Sebenza and an SRM 710 if you've never used/held both?
Probably half the Sebenzas ever made sit in a drawer and get taken out twice a year to be cleaned and ren-waxed.
Are all those collectors spoiled? My idea of quality isn't "price". The quality only truly reveals itself through being used.
I like quality items, but I like them to be used. All their scars and scratches should have stories to go with them.
I would hope the kid uses his Sebenza (and manages to keep it long enough to pass it to his kids).
Is the kid spoiled? Probably. Certainly "spoiled" for buying cheap Cr*p knives, after owning the Sebbie.
I no longer have any of the Parkers, Shaeffers and Mont Blancs I was given as a teen (lost/broken). Do I appreciate the difference between them and an Osmiroid?
Oh yes, and I appreciated the difference back then as well.
PS: The kid can't win. If he uses it, someone will say "he doesn't appreciate it, it should be stuck in a drawer as a collectors piece" If he don't use it someone will say" He doesn't appreciate it, look he never uses it".