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Here is a harrowing story I ran across recently. I can just imagine how I would feel if it were my wife and daughter. I tried to edit the profanity, but if I missed some, please don't take offense.
Ok, so that is the story as the mother related it. No, it is not the type of incident that happens all of the time to most people. Perhaps it is just the proliferation of such stories and the speed in which they spread on this web thing Al Gore invented, but it does seem like such things (and much worse) are taking place in the backcountry more than they used to.
It seems that the police were good on their suggestions to the ladies, "...advised me to get a hand gun or at least some pepper spray..., but I have to wonder why such measures had not already occured to either the mother or the daughter.
Most of us, and apparently these two, go to the woods to relax and enjoy some peaceful surroundings. Danger from other people seldom enters our heads until it falls in our laps.
Several recent threads and some in the past (like the one about the girl murdered on the trail) bring to mind how dangerous predatory humans can be, and we discuss how best to prepare ourselves for that one in a thousand chance that we, someone we care about, or a perfect stranger we come upon, can be more prepared to escape/defend ourselves.
The officers suggested she get a gun. Of course that means also training in how and when to use it. This incident occured on a spur of the AT. Much of the AT goes thru jurisdictions where firearms are not permitted by State, County, or local law. And in any event is usually only lawful when accompanied by the proper government issued license.
The officers also suggested the alternative of her getting bear spray. I am not sure of the legal ramifications of posessing and using bear spray on a human. I can imagine that in the right circumstances it could be an effective non-lethat deterrant against an attacker, but used wrongly, could also incapacitate the defender. A certain percentage of people are, always have been and always will be too dumb to use it properly:

From your perspective, is it wise to:
(A) pack a concealed gun for protection even where prohibited or unlicensed/without CCW permit?
(B) pack a cannister of bear spray in an area where bears are either non-existant or not a problem?
(C) advise someone else (such as the two ladies in the story) to acquire either protection without making further comment on training and legality?
I won't get into what I personally do for protection, but I do usually carry "something", particularly when I am out by myself (which is more often than not). I've never yet needed to use anything in self defense in the woods (but have several times in the city), however I feel like it is smart to be prepared to do so, whether to defend myself or others.
Michael
http://imaphoenixbaby.blogspot.com/2010/09/hell-at-october-mountain.htmlWe were sitting on the patio of my favorite Starbucks after lunch looking at the Appalachian Trail guide books.
My pack is loaded. We would just need to throw some food in a bag and drive.
Lets do it.
So we headed out a bit late in the afternoon, for what we thought was going to be a fantastic adventure. Three hours later we were pulling into the very easy to find trailhead off of Washington Mountain Road.
We grabbed our packs, stuffed the guidebooks in the back and headed for the October Mountain shelter. It took us about two hours to make it to the shelter. We could see a fire burning in the firepit and we were excited that we had made it.
The first thing we saw after the fire was a large dog, laying quietly next to the picnic table. His owner was tending the fire.
It had started to get dark so we got out the flashlights and started to look around for a place to put the tent. The shelter sleeps 12 but the single occupant had spread his belongings throughout most of it. There were whiskey bottles lying on the shelter floor and he had Chinese takeout cartons covering the picnic tables.
Im Chris.
We introduced ourselves. He suggested we set up in the loft and forget the tent given the fact that it was now completely dark. We thought that was a good idea and we went about getting our packs up there. He came over and asked us if we needed help lifting anything up to the loft. We set up our sleeping bags and then climbed down to make dinner. Chris was waiting at the bottom of the ladder with a joint. He offered it to me. I declined.
Once back at the picnic table Chris asked us if we wanted to share any of his takeout food. We thanked him but didnt accept. He told us not to be shy, and to move his stuff around if we needed to. He continued to drink by the fire. He asked us if he could use our flashlight. We had a headlamp also so we gave it to him. He had to ask us several times how to turn it on and off, even though it was NOT difficult. He mumbled a lot. And he talked to himself, his dog, or people we just couldnt see.
Still, I was unintimidated figuring it was probably just the result of the weed and alcohol, and he would be asleep soon. So we stayed.
We made mac and cheese over the little Pocket Rocket stove, had applesauce and Fig Newmans and talked between us. His fire had burned down considerably and he couldnt seem to get it going again. My daughter, who is a good campfire starter, offered to help him get it going again. She went over and before too long it was blazing again. He got down off of the logs he was sitting on and stretched out in front of it. My daughter rejoined me at the table. We started cleaning up the cook set when he started in on us. He was mumbling so I didnt understand it all, but my daughter heard a lot more than I did.
What I did hear was You ladies need to shut the f**k up. We were not being loud.
I was planning on spending a quiet night alone here and you b**ches showed up. You need to get your a**es up into that loft and shut the f**k up.
He called us a lot of names and made a lot of dirty comments.
That did not make me feel too confident at this point, but the alternative was to hike back out of the woods in the pitch dark and I didnt want to do that. Not yet anyway. We cleaned our things up, put our food in the bear box and climbed up into the loft, trying to be as quiet as possible.
We turned my headlamp down to low and looked through a guidebook until he told us to Shut the fucking light off, b**ch. We did. At this point I am starting to get a little scared and my daughter is freaking out. I tell her to calm down, that there are two of us and only one of him and we are OK. We get in our sleeping bags and text each other back and fort because we cant talk. He came into the shelter and got into one of the bunks with his dog. And then it started
A fat chick thinks she is tougher than I am. Ill show her who has the harder a**. Just wait.
I am going to f**k the hot chick, and kill the fat chick.
Do you want to be f**ked, b**ch?
I didnt hear everything else he said, but my daughter did. We both started shaking and sweating. I knew we couldnt stay there. I unzipped the bag and started picking up whatever I could get back in the pack. I texted a couple of friends asking them if they were still awake to call the police and send them to the area. I didnt think we were going to get out of the shelter. I put my keys, phone and light in my pocket in case we had to leave the packs and we climbed down, leaving a sleeping bag and a few other items behind.
He got out of his bunk and stood in front of us asking us where we were going. I told him we were leaving because there were too many mice in the shelter. He urinated in the shelter and said Good luck with that.
We had no idea which way the trail went. It was dark and we needed to get out of there as quickly as possible. He was out of the shelter and watching us and laughing. All I could find was a blue blaze and decided it didnt matter at this point we would just follow whatever trail as long as we were away from him. He didnt have a light. The batteries in the flashlight he had let him borrow had gone dead. We had only one headlamp. We held hands and just walked. We didnt know if we were going in the right direction or the wrong one. We just walked. As fast as we f**king could.
Very, very soon we saw a white blaze painted on the tree. My daughter was falling apart fast. I kept repeating, Only whisper. No talking. No stopping, only walking. She slipped and fell down the side of a small cliff. I pulled her back up and reminded her we could make no noise and that we couldnt stop. Only walk.
We figured out we were walking in the right direction when I spotted a perfect little white mushroom on the ground. I had pointed that mushroom out on the way in. That made us feel a little bit better.
We made it out of the woods in a little less than an hour. We didnt stop running until we hit the car. Shaking and sweating and dizzy we unlocked it, got in and started the engine. I pulled out my phone and there was a text message from the state police telling me they were enroute and to call 911.
We pulled away from the trailhead, not wanting to wait and see if Chris followed us out of the woods. The police asked us to stop at a cross road and wait for them. Four state police cruisers arrived and two officers asked for a statement. They sent another group of officers onto the trail to locate him. They found his dog at the shelter but not him. A ways up the trail we had taken to get out of the woods is where they found him. He had been following us. The police said knew who he was and said that there had been problems on the trail with him before.
They took a bunch of information from us, advised me to get a hand gun or at least some pepper spray and escorted us to the Mass Pike.
It now being about 2am we decided to stop at a rest area and just sleep in the car.
Drove home early this morning.
* * *
Last night sucked bad.
It seriously has to be me. There has to be something wrong with ME for shit like this to ALWAYS happen. I cant go anywhere or do anything without there being drama.
I was dressed in hiking clothing, hair up, no makeup, boots..and I am fat...so I am betting I was the fat chick. My poor daughter is up in the loft with me and the asshole says "I am going to f**k the hot chick and kill the fat chick" and she says, "Mom, I know which is which and we need to get out of here."
I feel so bad about the whole thing. I told her I was sorry I brought her out there about a million times.
Ok, so that is the story as the mother related it. No, it is not the type of incident that happens all of the time to most people. Perhaps it is just the proliferation of such stories and the speed in which they spread on this web thing Al Gore invented, but it does seem like such things (and much worse) are taking place in the backcountry more than they used to.
It seems that the police were good on their suggestions to the ladies, "...advised me to get a hand gun or at least some pepper spray..., but I have to wonder why such measures had not already occured to either the mother or the daughter.
Most of us, and apparently these two, go to the woods to relax and enjoy some peaceful surroundings. Danger from other people seldom enters our heads until it falls in our laps.
Several recent threads and some in the past (like the one about the girl murdered on the trail) bring to mind how dangerous predatory humans can be, and we discuss how best to prepare ourselves for that one in a thousand chance that we, someone we care about, or a perfect stranger we come upon, can be more prepared to escape/defend ourselves.
The officers suggested she get a gun. Of course that means also training in how and when to use it. This incident occured on a spur of the AT. Much of the AT goes thru jurisdictions where firearms are not permitted by State, County, or local law. And in any event is usually only lawful when accompanied by the proper government issued license.
The officers also suggested the alternative of her getting bear spray. I am not sure of the legal ramifications of posessing and using bear spray on a human. I can imagine that in the right circumstances it could be an effective non-lethat deterrant against an attacker, but used wrongly, could also incapacitate the defender. A certain percentage of people are, always have been and always will be too dumb to use it properly:
So last year I was walking out of my friendly neighborhood Scheels after buying my fishing license when I heard what sounded like a whole family screaming.
And it was.
In the parking lot was a family of 5 rolling on the ground and against their overloaded SUV in what looked like agony. Turns out, they had been on their way to Glacier NP when "Mom" suggested they stop and get some bear spray. "Dad" oblidges and then proceeds to spray it on his family like mosquito repelent. We called the ambulance and they were taken away. Good times...

From your perspective, is it wise to:
(A) pack a concealed gun for protection even where prohibited or unlicensed/without CCW permit?
(B) pack a cannister of bear spray in an area where bears are either non-existant or not a problem?
(C) advise someone else (such as the two ladies in the story) to acquire either protection without making further comment on training and legality?
I won't get into what I personally do for protection, but I do usually carry "something", particularly when I am out by myself (which is more often than not). I've never yet needed to use anything in self defense in the woods (but have several times in the city), however I feel like it is smart to be prepared to do so, whether to defend myself or others.
Michael