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tek77

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My first negative experience.
I recently completed a transaction with worldwood that went south and I ended up with my 1st negative feedback.
I was the seller and here is the thread:
http://www.bladeforums.com/forums/showthread.php/1027760-Rmd-SOLD

I apologize in advance for the length of this post - my editing skill are not there yet.
Besides, I opted for a full picture of how this transaction evolved. A few insignificant e-mail exchanges were are left out.

Here are the facts:
-I listed the knife as "never used", after I took a few pictures and visually inspected it in day light. Didn't noticed anything wrong except for what is described in the listing.
-buyer contacted me on Jan 12 asking if I wold accept a MO and if I'm ok waiting until the end of the week to get it sent.
No issue there, so I agreed.
-on Jan 17 he sent the MO. which was received on Jan 22nd.
- same day I decide to pack-up the knife with the intention of mailing in the morning. With my desk light on, I noticed some smudges on the coating. Did not noticed them when knife was inspected in day light and posted for sale. Edge looked fine to me. I could still see the factory grinding marks on it.
I contacted the seller, confirmed that I received the MO and brought to his attention the fact that the knife was listed in error "never used" when in fact it should have been described as "lightly used".

Here is my e-mail. To avoid confusion, my emails (seller) are in blue. Buyer's emails are in red.

MO received.
One thing before I sent the RMD your way.
I'm looking at it right now, and under artificial light I can see some faint smudges on the coating. Hardly noticeable, but they are there, under a certain angle. Can try to tale pics, but not sure they'll show.
I don't remember using it. Looks like it went through some cardboard at one time (I never used this particular knife myself, and this was an assumption, based on my previous experience on cutting cardboard with coated knives. Don't know how else to explain what may have caused the smudges)
Since I listed it as 'never used', you should let me know if you still want it.
As is, it should have been described as 'lightly used'.


Here is is reply (different color to avoid confusion):
Thank you very much for the honesty!

No problem I still want the knife!

I actually ordered a rmd from the swamp on january 1st this year, and since i was told the wait time would be 5-7 weeks and because i was impatient i looked on the exchange, the RMD i ordered from the swamp was tanker/black micarta so i wanted the other one to be sage/tan micarta and i figured that way id have one to use until the other shows up. Yours was perfect and at a great price so i jumped on it.... crazy thing tho i just got the RMD from the swamp today, in my hands in only 21 days! im impressed!

Thanks again for the honesty, and for waiting until i could get to the post office, i look forward to the blade!



My reply
RMD is in the mail.
You should have it by the end of the week.
Please let me know when you have it.
See attached DC#.



Few days later, on Jan 25 I received this e-mail:
Ok i just received the Knife! thank you. I got a couple questions though. did you purchase this new from the swamp or off another member? i could see the scuffs on the coating with normal room light, but this doesnt bother me, they are minimal and doesnt effect anything. but when i added artificial light to inspect the blade i noticed the tip is missing a few millimeters of coating as well and it looks like this knife has been stropped, or attempted at sharpened. the coating at the bevel is smoothed down, like all my blades i have put on a strop more than a few times, for a few hours. Its not from cutting anything, it follows the edge from tip to choil. Worse part, the edge is rougher than either of my other 2 RMDs. I looked at the edge under a microscope and its alot more jagged and rough. I know knives can vary from the factory and be a little different than one another and different people sharpen them at the swamp so the edge isnt always the exact same but this edge is pretty rough.

It's also possible you bought it as new when it was not from another member, but still a basic visual inspection would conclude its not new before you re-sold it. I wanted to spend 145 on a new RMD, that was the deal. then after you waited for my money and finally received it the description changed. I wanted new but you were kind enough to wait for me so i still went thru with the deal even though at this point i was less excited, i was still ok with your description of "lightly used and you could only see the scuffs in a certain light at an angle" . but even this is not the correct description.

there is still nothing wrong with this knife that makes me unable to use it but i cant see how going through cardboard (at one point) could of smoothed the coating from tip to choil and changed the geometry of the edge.

I dont really care about the coating, I am however concerned about the edge. The coating is for looks (well, and protection, for people who dont lube there knives) but the edge is the reason i buy knives.

I almost feel as if you pushed a sale out with false info, then tried to correct yourself after you got the money. Theres no way anyone who knows much about knives could inspect that blade in person and say its NEW and has never been used. I can see your feedback score and the amount of deals you have done and i know you must have some experience in blades and im positive if you inspected that blade before you listed it for sale you would have already known the issues.

Lightly used and stropped/sharpened seems to be the description of this blade


MY reply:
Knife was purchased on the exchange.
I have not noticed anything wrong with it at the time I took the pictures. I only noticed the scuffs under artificial light. Edge looked fine to me.
I misrepresented the knife, but not on purpose. That's why I contacted you before I shipped it.
A deal it's not completed until both parties are happy.
Send it back and I'll refund you $145.


Buyer's response:
Ok thank you for your willingness to fix the situation. I can not get to the post office except on thursdays and fridays, as you know, so it will be about a week but i will get you a DCN and everything when it goes out. If you have any unused knives from the swamp, or scrapyard knives that you would be willing to part with around the same value let me know, id much rather steel over a refund but either way is fine.

My reply - 1st request to send the knife back for full refund
xxx (name edited out), no need to thank me.
This is my bad.
Not doing this for profit. It's just a hobby.
I will send the MO as soon as I'll get the RMD back. I def. have to take close look at that blade.
Got no other blades I'm willing to part with right now.
I'll most likely re-list this one at a lower price to reflect it's condition.


Buyer:
Honestly the condition its in is still worth 145, people often pay 200 for a regular rmd to avoid the swamps wait time. the thing is i just felt lied to. but thinking about it, after sending the first MO then after i pay to ship it back, in the end i will wind up with a loss of money and time. I think ill avoid the headache and just keep it but I will take good, real, pictures showing that it has been used and if i can get my friend to loan me his microscope camera i will also record the edge damage, Hell i can also take it to a local knife shop and have him inspect the blade as new or used, record any damage, and certify it, but this will cost me. I can do this to prove that im not just making false statements and have an idea of what im talking about. I just dont see waiting a week before i can even ship the knife, then for you to receive it and inspect it, then wait for the MO, just to end up with a loss and to find out someone else gets the knife for less than i did. so i go thru the hassle and someone else gets a better deal. That would just piss me off. So ill avoid this headache and just keep it but i can still prove everything i stated about the blade is true and correct.

Never questioned the guy. What is he trying to prove exactly? What I already told him, that the knife is lightly used?

My reply - second request to send the knife back for refund.
I can tell you are not happy with this transaction, and want to keep the knife just to avoid the hassle of returning it. That's not a good reason to keep it. Before you make a final decision, I'd say sleep on it, and tomorrow let me know what you decided: keep it or return it.
I'd suggest you return it and get your money back. I am not happy with this transaction either and I'm at fault, since I listed it as new in error .
Bottom line: If I just want to sell a knife, I can do it on e-bay. Bladeforums is a great community and I only had good experiences. I intend to keep it that way.

You insinuated twice that I lied to you. It didn't go unnoticed.


Text in bold - you will see later on how the buyer reads this words as weakness on my part. He thinks I fear negative feedback which is not what I meant.

Buyer:
Hey man stuff happens. And with the price you listed the knife at its obvious your not trying to make money on them. And I have really appreciated the quik communication and your cool demeanor and Bladeforums is a great place, i agree, The thing is like i said the knife is still worth 145 so i feel as if sending it back and putting me at a loss of time and money isnt neccessary. I like the knife and can re-sharpen it and polish the edge back without any issues.

"You insinuated twice that I lied to you. It didn't go unnoticed."

my wife has no experience with knives period, except when cooking and i handed it to her without telling her a single thing and asked her if she thinks its new or used, and she said used and pointed at the edge. so if she could spot that its used i cant see how you could not, unless you recieved the knife and put it away until it was sold without ever inspecting it. you say you have other RMDs as well so i know you are aware of the edge and finish of these knives. the knife has not been abused or hurt or anything and is still fully functional, but its just not new as described.

Now, you have a perfect feedback score and have been on BF for years without any issues. I wont ruin that, i dont feel like your a bad person or anything and obviously you have done right by everyone you have dealt with so far so i dont think you picked me out the group to get over on. i think maybe the knife just wasnt inspected good enough before it was put up for sale.



I'm not sure what this guy is after: on one hand he doesn't want to return the knife, but on the other he keeps on bringing back the imperfection on the blade ads keeps on making references to my feedback, again.
Add to that the insinuation that I lied to him, and how my knife doesn't look perfect under the microscope, and how he's gonna get a microscope camera to record edge damage (???) or how he can " take it to a local knife shop and have him inspect the blade as new or used, record any damage, and certify it, but this will cost me." :confused::confused::confused:

My reply (at this point I am tired of being flooded with long e-mails that do nothing but beat on a dead horse)
So you chose to keep it.
That concludes this deal.


Buyer:
ok, i did follow thru with payment as i said i would so will you have a problem leaving me feedback? Im not going to mess up your feedback score and track record.

Now he attempts to twist my arm by casually mentioning how he has no intent to mess up my feedback and track record - third time he makes a reference to my feedback.

Truth is I am not comfortable leaving positive feedback to a guy that starts harnessing me via e-mail, after I informed him about the condition of the knife before I sent it to him and before I cashed the MO. I offed him twice a refund and he turned me down.
The overall transaction qualifies for neutral feedback, at best.
I decided to just move on and let it be.

Buyer:
sent an email about you leaving me feedback, havent gotten a reply or feedback. theres no reason to ignore me or treat me neagatively. I followed thru with payment as promised and would like feedback saying so. i said i would not mess your feedback rating up but if you want to just ignore me with an attitude thats a different story


Apparently fallowing through with the payment automatically qualifies the buyer for positive feedback. :confused:
Nevermind that I disagree.
Nevermind the fact that leaving feedback is not mandatory per bladeforum rules.
Nevermind that I don't take bullying/harassing emails lightly.


My reply:
Threatening with negative feedback or whatever won't take you anywhere. In the future, if you want feedback that bad, start by employing some common manners.
Besides, it's not all about feedback, you know?
This transaction is closed and there will be no more communication from me.
Feel free to do the same.


Buyer:
common manners? in the future you shouldnt lie about the condition of a knife... your the one in the wrong guy, i was decent enough not to screw over your feedback score and you wanna get ugly about it.


Another feedback reference. Guy is keep on sending the message, why I don't get it? And I am still a liar.




Soon after I got his negative feedback :
Negative improperly listed knife as new, changed description after receiveing money.
I guess all those feedback hints mentioned above gotta materialize, right?

To worldwood:
If you are not happy with the knife, why choose to keep it? Why turn me down twice on the refund offer? Why all the drama after you decide to keep the knife?
Why try and bully me into leaving positive feedback under threat of leaving negative feedback?
Why exactly did you left a negative feedback?


To the rest of you that had the patience to read my post:
What do you think of all this?
 
First did you inform worldwood that you were going to start this thread? Second if all this is true and happened as you say the negative feedback was unnecessary. You can either choose return or keep it. Why was a discount not thought of?
 
First did you inform worldwood that you were going to start this thread?
He is informed now.

Second if all this is true and happened as you say the negative feedback was unnecessary. You can either choose return or keep it. Why was a discount not thought of?
Buyer seemed unhappy with the knife, not the price. That's the message I got.
If he wanted a discount, he should have asked for a discount.
Apparently leaving a negative feedback is easier.
 
I think by offering a refund should have ended it right there. When a guy starts talking about looking at an edge under a microscope I would have insisted that he send it back just based on that alone.
 
i didnt keep on sending any messages. i told youd id keep it to avoid the shipping cost and if you left me feedback for paying i would just chalk the incorrect description up to you not inspecting the blade correctly. even you admitted you listed the knife incorrectly. the fact i decided to keep it didnt matter, i did not leave negative feedback until you got an atitude and told me to have common manners and that you were not going to leave me feedback because i didnt return the knife i paid for.

I never asked for any money or discount or anything i wasnt looking for anything..... i just wanted feedback....it would of been that easy but then you tell me to get some manners and that you dont care about feedback and here we are, the experience was a bad one, and now the feedback shows it.

Also emails are private, not to be put publicly, you could have sent them to a MOD to be viewed not post them for the world.

Fact 1, you lied about the condition of the knife, once you realized ityou changed it to another incorrect description
fact 2, you would not leave me feedback, even tho i did nothing wrong

Why do you feel you dont deserve a negative feedback score? because after i noticed the real condition you were willing to take it back at the cost of my dime? come on man, you lied about the description twice and my wife could spot it was used it 2 seconds.... i gave you chances and tried to avoid this, its like you asked me to go here.....

I did everything i said i would in the transaction so i deserved the feedback, you didnt want the transaction ending negatively for you because of your track record

I wasnt looking for a discount or cheaper price but i didnt want to do the leg work and inspections just for someone else to get it cheaper, had you said you would inspect the blade and then offer me the discounted price i would have sent it back to you no problem, but not if i pay all the fees to send it back then someone else will get it cheaper...

So it looks like you do care.... nevermind i dont take harrassing emails lightly lmao....... i never harrassed you i was just seeking feedback, you could of said i dont feel as if i should leave feedback and i would of continued with my life, but you attacked me with have common manners, and that pissed me off because you were the one that messed up in this transaction, i have the right to be a little upset for getting something different than what i payed for. No matter what they write in this thread if anyone pays over 100 on a knife they want it to come described like what they bought.

whatever, if a MOD wants to change it go ahead, the facts are the facts
 
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I think by offering a refund should have ended it right there. When a guy starts talking about looking at an edge under a microscope I would have insisted that he send it back just based on that alone.

Yea because looking at it under a scope doesnt do any good? lmao
under the scope you can really see the edge....
 
i didnt keep on sending any messages. i told youd id keep it to avoid the shipping cost and if you left me feedback for paying i would just chalk the incorrect description up to you not inspecting the blade correctly. even you admitted you listed the knife incorrectly. the fact i decided to keep it didnt matter, i did not leave negative feedback until you got an atitude and told me to have common manners and that you were not going to leave me feedback because i didnt return the knife i paid for.

You leave feedback for the deal not for someone's personality. There are plenty of people here who aren't people people, that doesn't mean that the deal, and they, deserve negative feedback because of it.

I never asked for any money or discount or anything i wasnt looking for anything..... i just wanted feedback....it would of been that easy but then you tell me to get some manners and that you dont care about feedback and here we are, the experience was a bad one, and now the feedback shows it.

See above.

Also emails are private, not to be put publicly, you could have sent them to a MOD to be viewed not post them for the world.


Emails are not private, when you send an email, it is unsecure, there is no law preventing posting or even reading of private email. And why would you not want the whole conversation in the open? What are you trying to hide?

Fact 1, you lied about the condition of the knife, once you realized ityou changed it to another incorrect description
fact 2, you would not leave me feedback, even tho i did nothing wrong

Why do you feel you dont deserve a negative feedback score? because after i noticed the real condition you were willing to take it back at the cost of my dime? come on man, you lied about the description twice and my wife could spot it was used it 2 seconds.... i gave you chances and tried to avoid this, its like you asked me to go here.....

I did everything i said i would in the transaction so i deserved the feedback, you didnt want the transaction ending negatively for you because of your track record

I wasnt looking for a discount or cheaper price but i didnt want to do the leg work and inspections just for someone else to get it cheaper, had you said you would inspect the blade and then offer me the discounted price i would have sent it back to you no problem, but not if i pay all the fees to send it back then someone else will get it cheaper...

So it looks like you do care.... nevermind i dont take harrassing emails lightly lmao....... i never harrassed you i was just seeking feedback, you could of said i dont feel as if i should leave feedback and i would of continued with my life, but you attacked me with have common manners, and that pissed me off because you were the one that messed up in this transaction, i have the right to be a little upset for getting something different than what i payed for. No matter what they write in this thread if anyone pays over 100 on a knife they want it to come described like what they bought.

whatever, if a MOD wants to change it go ahead, the facts are the facts

It sounds to me like you had made up your mind that no matter what happened, you were going to leave negative feedback and that was the way you were going to get back at him. He offered to refund the money and take back the knife. You did t want to pay the $ in return shipping? Why not ask him to pay for it?

Also, why do you seem so put off that someone might receive the knife cheaper than you if you return it?

I personally do not feel you should have posted negative feedback. You tried to hide the fact you were unhappy with the deal and trick him into leaving feedback so you could leave a negative one.
 
Had i received feedback he never would have. there was no trickery involved. he did not offer to cover the cost of shipping it back after i commented on not wanting to spend my own dime to be put at a loss in the end, but still this is not about the money at all, its about the knife being described wrong twice, then him having an attitude towards me for wanting feedback. thats the reason for this as it states in all my messages emails or not.

Emails are not secure but they are not posted in a public forum, what do i have to hide, i said everything i said to him

Honestly i dont care what you think, i have clarified the reason for leaving negative feedback, if a MOD (not a wannabe) wants to change it, or feels i have left it unjustly feel free to let me know or change it

But i think if you received a knife as NEVER USED, esp. a bussekin you would want it to be never used. then if you asked for feedback for doing right and someone got an attitude with you because they was in the wrong im sure you would not be so happy either....

Im moving on.........
 
tek77;

The overall transaction qualifies for neutral feedback, at best.
I decided to just move on and let it be.

To worldwood:
If you are not happy with the knife, why choose to keep it? Why turn me down twice on the refund offer? Why all the drama after you decide to keep the knife?
Why try and bully me into leaving positive feedback under threat of leaving negative feedback?
Why exactly did you left a negative feedback?

had you spoke to me privatly and not just ignored the last message i wrote all this could have been cleared up easier. you could of told me you just didnt want to leave feedback on a transaction that ended like this and i still would not of left the negative feedback but you got rude and told me to have common manners even though you are the one that lied about the condition of the knife. this upset me enough to leave the feedback that i said i would not leave. you never once commented on it in private, you should have.

Whats the real problem?

The feedback states; improperly listed knife as new, changed description after receiveing money.

Thats the facts, even tek77 says so.... so if it is an accurate description of the sale why are you arguing it? if the feedback stated something wrong ( a lie) then you would have just reason to argue. here the feedback stated exactly what you state yourself so why not move on....

this is my last message here explaining anything unless a MOD has something to say. thanks
 
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Tek: My advice is to offer one last time to give him a refund and ALSO offer to pay the return shipping. If he doesn't take that, then the knife is his and he has made his own bed. The mods will take care of the feedback situation I'm sure...especially if you offer to refund and pay return shipping.
 
Tek: My advice is to offer one last time to give him a refund and ALSO offer to pay the return shipping. If he doesn't take that, then the knife is his and he has made his own bed. The mods will take care of the feedback situation I'm sure...especially if you offer to refund and pay return shipping.

I think this is the best way.
 
One other comment, this one for worldwood:

You seemed really obsessed and hurt by the fact that you didn't get feedback. I realize you probably want to build a solid reputation on the forums and every transaction counts, but being spiteful and hitting a long-time member with flawless feedback with negative feedback is not the way to go about it. You are actually hurting your own ability to do further business on the forums. I know I always search people in TGTBTU before I do business with them, and if I found this thread, I wouldn't do business with you. No offense to you personally, I'm just being honest with how I see all of this.
 
One other comment, this one for worldwood:

You seemed really obsessed and hurt by the fact that you didn't get feedback. I realize you probably want to build a solid reputation on the forums and every transaction counts, but being spiteful and hitting a long-time member with flawless feedback with negative feedback is not the way to go about it. You are actually hurting your own ability to do further business on the forums. I know I always search people in TGTBTU before I do business with them, and if I found this thread, I wouldn't do business with you. No offense to you personally, I'm just being honest with how I see all of this.

This is true. There is an overwhelming need for positive feedback, and it was handled incorrectly. The way this has played out you've put a nice dent in your own rep before it even began. I will tell you this from experience, sometimes you don't get feedback. Even if you give it and the transaction is carefully handled, and communication is crisp. That is the way it is. It's not necessarily that people don't want to give you feedback, but they just don't know how to.
 
Yep, have had several perfect transactions where the other party just doesn't bother to leave feedback. It's a little annoying but nothing to fuss over. I agree that leaving negative feedback when not really necessary can be just as damaging as receiving negative feedback. It appears the seller wanted to make things right and you should have let him long before it turned into a pissing match. Most of the time I bet 2 squabbling people could meet and enjoy a beer together but the internet makes for a much too easy battleground.
 
I think the seller did everything right here. Mistakes happen and he took responsibility for that. Seller sounds like an upstanding guy and the buyer looks like a bitter person leaving negative feedback out of spite.

I agree the seller should have that negative feedback removed. If not, seller should refer all future buyers to this thread as to why that negative feedback is there. I would buy from him after reading this thread. JMO
 
I'd say at least 50% of my deals do not have feedback on them. You just need to engage in more deals and just be cool.

I've bought/sold/traded w/ Tek before and they've all been great. I'll never deal w/ worldwood. Just a weird dude. He handled this situation very, very poorly.
 
Tek: My advice is to offer one last time to give him a refund and ALSO offer to pay the return shipping. If he doesn't take that, then the knife is his and he has made his own bed. The mods will take care of the feedback situation I'm sure...especially if you offer to refund and pay return shipping.

This would be more than fair, but at this point we would need a middle man (mod) to avoid issues. Either way the damage is done, to my rep more than anything so i dont see the point really now either.

I handled this poorly, ok i can agree with that to an extent and i apologise but the fact of the matter is i never lied and what i say is true and the negative feedback states;

listed knife as new, was not, once he received the money changed description to went thru cardboard at one point. still incorrect description. recieved knife as lightly used and previously stropped/sharpened. he would of refunded money at my expense of shipping him the knife back and mentioned then he would sell it cheaper to someone else. I asked for feedback for paying as i said i would and was ignored and he has an attitude about the situation because i decided to keep it instead of loosing out on the shipping twice! i told him i would not leave negative feedback and would chalk it up as not inspected properly before being put up for sale and since he been here for years with a perfect feedback score i wanted to give him the benfit of the doubt and not mess with his rating, but he refuses to leave me feedback and has an attitude towards me for not sending it back so he could sell it to someone else at my loss for them to get a better deal.

Now read thru all my emails that he posted,you can see i tried to be polite and tried to be understanding on the situation and always stated i would not mess with his track record all i wanted was feedback and instead i got an attitude and told to use common manners, if he did not want negative feedback he should of used the same manners.

Had he left me negative feedback for having a poor attitude i wouldnt of came in here crying to everyone when the facts state its true........

I cant change the feedback, had he offered to pay the shipping for the return or give me the discount after he inspects the edge i would of agreed without issue but in the end he was upset, as was I, but im not the one who lied about the description and i was the one willing to work in private to fix the situation. hell all i wanted was feedback, he could of said this guy paid on time but has a pissy attitude because i lied about the description of the knife and now he dont want to return it.. see all truth but not a positive thing either, i would of been happy! I like this place so i dont want to cause issues but really i cant believe he posted this like a child when he could of just talked it out with me like i tried many times before leaving the feedback.


People reading this, if i buy a knife from you as NEVER USED and it turns out used i wont be happy, then if i agree to just let it go and chalk it up to crap happens and you decide to have an attitude towards me about it, then i will leave you negative feedback as the deal was a negative transaction. Hell most people skip trying to fix it properly and just leave negative feedback because the item was not as described.......

Now MODS, what should i have done? sent it back at my expense? i didnt want to, i told him the knife was still worth what i paid so id rather keep it, this was my choice. Should i just not have cared that he didnt leave feedback and got rude about the situation?


Again i cant change the feedback but i tried to fix this in private now its out and way too late, he could of said any of this in private before i left the feedbcak and i would of worked with him without leaving the feedback. Its so much easier when people just talk things out, but he refused to talk with me. And here we are.

Now i have explained myself over and over and i have read what you guys think as well with an OPEN MIND, and now i understand how people can think i was wrong for the feedback since he did in fact offer the refund so i apologise again but again i state all this could of been avoided with communication or leaving feedback. I would change the feedback if i could sense the community feels as a whole it seems that i was in the wrong but i think some of you should re-read this and think about how you would feel if you got a knife as NEVER USED and when you open it you can spot its used first thing.

Im trying to be resposible about the situation and understand it from everyones side so i apologise for the way i handled things but i still do feel he handled this improperly as well. not just listing the knife as never used when its used but also for not being willing to use communication to fix the issues and being rude as well.
 
I can see who I won't be dealing with in the future. Tek, you did what you could. Offering a refund for the return of the knife was the way to go here, and you did that.
 
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