you are not doing any explaining. You have here the chance to tell your side of the story. Two posts, and still nothing.
To be fair, literally the first thing he said was explaining what happened.
"Well I have been across the United States supporting my grandfather who's sick enough to die any day now and haven't been on the forums in awhile now"
Did you miss that part? Not saying I believe the guy without hearing more, but to be fair to him he DID explain himself.