I just spent 30 minutes on one of my tantos using only a 1000 grit arkansas stone with mineral oil. I started with a grind path angle of 45 degrees, grinding the blade at the ~20ish degrees that it was previously set at. I made extremely small circles, focusing entirely on creating the most consistent polishing/smoothing motion that I could muster. I'd stop to check the bevel every few seconds to make sure that I was proceeding in the right direction.
After about 15 minutes, I checked the bevel one last time and felt pretty proud - it was about 90% smooth and only had a few dimples with almost zero rolling. This is typical of me for the past few days. I then checked for a burr and had built up a sizable one on the opposite side of the blade. I spent the next 15 minutes carefully working the other side and checking for the burr. It took 10 minutes to even notice that the burr had changed, and the next five did nothing for it. There's still a noticeable burr that I can only feel when I flick my thumb across the blade in both directions and can feel that one of the sides is sharper, and it goes up the length of the blade, but I have no idea how to get it any smaller - it seemed like I had worked on it forever with little improvement.
When I was finished, both bevels were very reasonably even and looked amazing. Flicking my thumb across the blade in either direction yielded the feeling of incredibly unprecedented sharpness. I felt rather satisfied.
So I took the blade and tried to shave arm hair. Nothing happened. "No matter, I bet it's sharper than what I've done before but not quite yet sharp enough." So I tried it on paper, which is my usual test. Trying to slice straight downwards, even with substantial force, just bent the paper. Trying to slice at an extremely acute angle worked about 50% of the time, with the other 50% just creating VERTICAL TEARS several inches deep into the paper.
It just seems like no matter how perfect the blade looks and no matter how careful I am, I can't bring it up to what feels like an acceptably competent sharpness. Worst of all, I have NO IDEA what I'm doing wrong - I've gotten better about the bevel rolling and have fixed that some, but it seems to have made ZERO DIFFERENCE in the sharpness of the blade, etc.
The most discouraging part is the lack of ability to diagnose whatever the hell I'm doing wrong

Gonna try to make a video tomorrow detailing my methods, hoping it'll help.
Thanks again for all of the advice, everyone.
EDIT: Just took the factory-perfect angle of my less-than-satisfactorily sharp Ka-bar 5054 to my 1k grit stone, and within ~20 passes total was able to carefully bring up a burr and take it off the opposite side. Used the sharpie test and maintained the angle -PERFECTLY-. The bevel STILL looks factory-done. The cleanness of the initial angle helped me to "snap to" the proper angle as well, and after I finished, the blade was (with a bit of help) push cutting paper and shaving hair off my arm - this is the first I've seen of a blade doing this. Wow. I really want to be able to get blades that are dull to this state.
Knowing that I was able to do this to a blade that was halfway there but not to others, any idea what my general problem might be?
EDIT AGAIN:
Sorry for the wall of text!
I took a look at my recon 1, tip first, edge up, and noticed that the blade geo was off. The dominant side bevel was about 22, but the non dominant side was nearly flat! It looked like a chisel grind!!
I took it to my coarse ceramic and tried to set the new edge to 22 or so, LIGHTLY stroking burrs off as they came. After about 20 relatively firm strokes and zero progress, I reached for my substantially more awkward portable smith's stone. It's a diamond stone, and I figured that it'd work faster and make a more discernible difference. I worked with it, keeping the angle as consistent as possible. Within a few minutes, the second bevel was within ~15% of the angle of the first. I walked up through the stones and finished it off, then hair tested it. It feels relatively close, but the angle isn't perfect. I figure I'll take some time later to really perfect the angle.
I'm REALLY noticing substantially better angle consistency with a combination of suggestions from other users. Thanks everyone! I'm proud that I both knew what to do to fix the geometry and selected the stone best suited for the task, and it feels really fulfilling that I'm seeing progress in this way. My two tanto are starting to feel less like tools and more like sidekicks. I'm hoping that the new 4k grit ice bear and leather strop with DMT-3 (1, 3, 6 micron diamond paste) will really help to put that finishing touch on these blades.
Please don't hesitate to keep advice/observations coming; I really appreciate this help and am positively beaming after tonight's incremental successes!
