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My name has come up often. I am thankful to be in such high esteem.
One of the things STeven (Kohai99) told me (in private) was my posts bear more weight than the average poster. It was for this reason he openly fought with me on my position on a past display thread. We made up (I hope), but that impression has stuck with me.
I so rarely like getting involved in conflictual and opinionated discussions. it takes a LOT of mental energy to respond and figure out my position.
This is the benefit, though: By being involved it causes us to think hard about *why* we have this opinion, and then how to convey the message properly.
Not everyone has the energy or the communication skills. Or the emotional fortitude. Typing quickly can get troublesome. We've all seen it.
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I saw a new maker whose work was posted and he asked for opinions. It was unfinished and raw. I started to write an honest comeback simply allowing that he should NEVER post half finished knives for display unless it's a W.I.P.
I bailed. For me to offer a negative comment, is throwing a stab at a a member of a community I who earns me a partial living. And even if I'll never work with him, other makers are watching my words. Like Paul Long offered, my silence was smarter than my words.
So, I'm in a unique position. Dave Ellis, in the second post said he also feels uncomfortable with any critique. He's like me in many ways.
From a business standpoint, I do well to offer praise. Sometimes more than necessary? I'm guilty as charged.
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Funny, in the past we've discussed how, unless honest critique is asked for, it's rarely going to be received well. One thought: Create one of those post title banners: "Opinions wanted". Once that's in the title, then the natives will circle the wagons. See how infrequent it may be used, though.
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Good stuff being tossed out here.
Coop
One of the things STeven (Kohai99) told me (in private) was my posts bear more weight than the average poster. It was for this reason he openly fought with me on my position on a past display thread. We made up (I hope), but that impression has stuck with me.
I so rarely like getting involved in conflictual and opinionated discussions. it takes a LOT of mental energy to respond and figure out my position.
This is the benefit, though: By being involved it causes us to think hard about *why* we have this opinion, and then how to convey the message properly.
Not everyone has the energy or the communication skills. Or the emotional fortitude. Typing quickly can get troublesome. We've all seen it.
•••••••••••••••••••••
I saw a new maker whose work was posted and he asked for opinions. It was unfinished and raw. I started to write an honest comeback simply allowing that he should NEVER post half finished knives for display unless it's a W.I.P.
I bailed. For me to offer a negative comment, is throwing a stab at a a member of a community I who earns me a partial living. And even if I'll never work with him, other makers are watching my words. Like Paul Long offered, my silence was smarter than my words.
So, I'm in a unique position. Dave Ellis, in the second post said he also feels uncomfortable with any critique. He's like me in many ways.
From a business standpoint, I do well to offer praise. Sometimes more than necessary? I'm guilty as charged.
•••••••••••••••••••••
Funny, in the past we've discussed how, unless honest critique is asked for, it's rarely going to be received well. One thought: Create one of those post title banners: "Opinions wanted". Once that's in the title, then the natives will circle the wagons. See how infrequent it may be used, though.
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Good stuff being tossed out here.
Coop