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Thanks, everyone, for the kind words. Before my dad passed, he said multiple times that I was far too young to have experienced as much death and sickness as I have. My father was diagnosed with cancer when I was 8. I was 15 when my grandmother passed. Then three years later, my father and I watched a family friend that I had known and admired since I was young child pass away in a car crash. My father then passed 5 years later when I was 23. My mom's brother-in-law passed almost exactly a year after my dad, and now dad's brother-in-law passed this morning. His son is about the same age that I was when I lost my dad. I can't afford to bring the whole family, so I think it'll just be my mom, brother, and I taking the trip to the east coast. I feel that I have to be there for my cousin. There's enough stress in life and changes in life from ages 18-25; I've experienced the additional pain and anguish that he will now be dealing with.
It just beats you down.
It just beats you down.