Glad some of my advice helped. If it makes you feel any better, I had to go through a similar learning phase so I am just trying to show you the path that I had already walked before you. Sharpening is not an inborn skill and takes practice, trial and error, and the occasional "aha!" moments as you go along.
I learned a lot by reading the sticky posts about it in the Maintenance, Tinkering, and Embellishments folder. And by lots and lots of trial and error. And by buying and trying various tools and stones. The best spend you can make is a sharpie and a loupe, so that you can see what is happening to a blade as you are working on it. Quickly teaches you what is working and what isn't, and why.
The beauty of eventually mastering freehanding is that once your mind and hands grasp the concept (which is really quite simple- you are rubbing a piece of metal on a natural or man-made rock), you can get a good edge off of anything abrasive.
Nothing more satisfying than taking a really blunt or damaged knife (hopefully a friends) and using a few coffee cups (yes, I have different grit coffee cups) and some cardboard, handing them back a working edge in 5 minutes.