I'm very sorry to hear about that.
I don't know what I should say. After working in a nursing home, I do see death differently. In the ICU where I used to work, I tried hard to cure and save every one's life, but now I am working hard on keeping my older patients in the nursing home comfortable, helping them to reach that point as they wished--no pain, no suffering, die peacefully, so they can have a high quality of life, but not a high quantity of life.
As Howard said, we will all reach that point sooner or later, we have to face it, it is just a matter of how.
Best wishes with you. Enjoy the time and stop by the forum when you can.
Peace with you.