I've been in this business a long time, 30 years in 2008, and have pretty much heard and seen it all. I guess I shouldn't get so excited or take any of it personally. It's hard not to though when it is your life long career and sole source of income...
Most collectors are fun, easy, respectful and a pleasure to deal with. A few are bossy and obnoxious. The beauty of it is that a maker can pick and choose which ones he wants to deal with or not.
No one can force you to make a knife,... and no one can stop you from making a knife.
My advice for knifemakers is, no matter how desperate for money you are, don't take any orders for knives that you don't like, don't feel good about, or don't want to make. If you can do this, then... it's all good!