I want to thank you, Vel, for really showing this side of the issue. I think I only hinted at it a bit in my first post, but I couldn;t have said it better than you have.
Everyone, you have to take into consideration the diversity of people that we have here. Allow me to tell my little story, just to show you what one forumite (who happens to be a basic forumite and a 1999 signee) thinks about on occasion.
As many of you know, I recently got engaged. HOORAY! But let me tell you what the last 20 months was like for me. January before last my then girlfriend and now fiancee went looking at rings. She and I have been going to post-secondary school for quite a while noe (I'm on mmy 7th rear, working on my 3rd degree). We are highschool sweethearts too! So we find some nice rings and I know which one I want to get! Graciously, the woman helping me allowed me to pay over a loooong period of time. I pay my own tuition- no free ride here. Try doing that for 7 years and see how much spare money you have laying around. I also have a mere $900 US in student debt, because I worked my ass off. So anyways, about the middle of the summer (14 months later) I finally pay off the ring and in September I asked her to marry me. But for those 14 months, I was pretty much broke after the 3rd of each month. I'd pay some on the ring, some to tuition and other bills, and leave myself $20 or $30 for whatever through the month- pop, a movie, etc. This last month (November) was the first month I actually went longer than 3 days! I went a whole 3 weeks before having to borrow $30 to get me through the month. WOHOO!
Now here's where the dilemma sets in. As I said in my earlier post, my fiancee bought me an Inova X5T for Christmas and I directed her to 1SKS to get it, to help out the forums. In the past 3 years I've bought 1 knife- that's it! So this was actually the second 'net dealer I've dealt with, and only the 3rd time I've ordered something from a knife place. I know that the shipping companies made more money off fo the deal than 1sks did ($18 US shipping to Canada, about that same amount again for brokerage fees), but I was proud to have finally, indirectly, ordered from 1sks and help out the forums.
Now it turns out I have a bit of boxing-day shopping money to spend this year, and I was thinking of buying a saw and some chisels and a bit of sharpening gear so I could make boxes as a hobby. I make knives, but only in good weather (I work outside) and I want an inside hobby. Now here's the dilemma. I've not bought myself something "bigger" than a book for over 2 years. I am happy to be receiving a christmas present bought from 1sks, as it helps out the forums. But the way some of you are talking, I ought to not get into woodworking, and instead send Spark $30 US (about $50 Canadian). If I do that, I can't get into woodworking. But yes, I do get a lot of value from the forums! Sure I have (indirectly) bought from 1sks now, but that purchase certainly doesn't contribute a whole lot financially to the forums. Last yar for new years resolutions I made a post here saying I'd try to gove more information and comment to the forums, especially to new knife people. That I'd like to think makes a difference around here, but it doesn't buy us a server. So maybe I should send Spark $30. Then again, after 2+ years of not really spending anythign on myself, maybe I deserve to buy a freakin' saw and chisels and enjoy using them, enjoy doing a hobby instead of just reading about a hobby. But then again, I come here almost every day and learn lots and try to contribute lots, so maybe I should buy something from 1sks. But wait, would you pay $30+ in shipping for one item? So maybe I should spend that money on a membership. Then again, $30 US could get me a saw and a chisel, or a slipjoint to enjoy... And I am just one of thousands of members.
And this is just what I am going through. I love the idea of having multiple ways of allowing people to contribute. I could probably send in $10 US. But if this site goes to membership only, I won't be able to hang around anymore. If I had a career instead of a tuition bill, I'd love to get a knifemaker membership. THen maybe I could sell knives I make more easily and get a membership! I actually have sold 2 knives now, both to forumites. Both times I sold a knife I made, the money went to buy christmas presents for my family. I'm going to go work on a knife right now for my 3rd ever customer. She gave me half the money upfront, and that went to christmas presents too. WHen I finish the knife and get the rest of the money, I thought I'd use that to ship my sister's present out to her, and buy a saw. But then again, maybe I should not buy a saw. And I'm right back in this awful loop.
I'd rather see the forums go "contribute what you can, and we love you for it", instead of "you must be this tall, and contribute this much this way, before you can ride the forums".