Sir, you are 100% correct. The first two "deals" with Jack were absolutely poor "knife-dealing" on MY PART. While I did back out of the two deals, I did so VERY quickly, within the course of reading the several E-mails that awaited me.
Irrespective of WHY, my "change of mind" to accept a better "deal" in both cases was WAY OUT OF LINE. In Both cases I stood tall, acknowledged my very poor tactics and my indecisiveness and APOLOGIZED as the GUILTY Party. Jack was VERY KIND to me and took the time to educate me in the Fine art of "wheeling and DEALING". Jack and I were "cool", and if you look back, I have DEFENDED Jack on several occassions.
This last knife DEAL went WAY over the line. I do not simply call my financial planner and ask to send me some cash from one of my investments to purchase a knife. I will add, simply for the sake of clarification that MONEY has NOT been the issue. As a result of my misfortune during the police call that changed my life, two very large for-profit entities were found negligent for the proximate cause of my injuries and I settled a major league civil suit. As I posted just recently in General Discussion, I began to wonder out loud if knives were things of beauty to love, cherish, use and collect, or should one just dump 25 grand and buy some of the BIG-Names in the knife industry to have available as a "commodity".
During THAT thread I discovered how deeply my love for knives has become, even though I have only been at this for approx. 16 Months.
I made a decision to use ONLY the money that I worked for and saved for specifically for knives as my source of revenue from which to BUY. I also took out what knives I do have in my collection and labeled them as "trading stock"
I, like many of the formites check the "knife exchange" daily. This is a MUST for me. I spend hours each day in the many different forums as an active participant, and have many times exposed parts of me to all on BF (most whom I have never met)things in my LIFE that are very personal and very much describes who IRA IS.
During one vist I saw a Duncan Whiplash for sale. I did not have the money at that time, but even if I did, Jack beat me to it. "If ya snooze, ya lose", and I snoozed. Within a week or so, I E-mailed Jack asking about the availability of THIS KNIFE. Jack QUICKLY answered back that he would indeed sell it for $400.00 and added that since I had backed out of the two prior deals, in order to save "face" and restore JACK'S FAITH IN ME, I HAD TO BUY THIS KNIFE. Let there be NO mistake. I WANTED this knife badly and at $400.00 it IS STILL a GREAT DEAL. I made it perfectly clear that I DID NOT have the $400 currently, but as soon as I did, it was JACK'S.
I then WATCHED my EVERY knife purchase. I posted a Brad Duncan in MOP that I owned for sale in order to get the $400.00 needed for Jack. I have shipped that Duncan to another formite and I am awaiting his return to his Home State after being called away on family matters to evaluate the Duncan and if he likes it, consumate the trade by shipping me two Microtechs which I had already sold in order to pay Jack in full.
Jack kept up the pressure, demanding I send $300.00 NOW and then $100.00 within 30 days or ELSE he would post in GB&U that I was a punk. Just as Jack has been victim of a family tragedy, the gentleman currently in possession of my Duncan did too, and this caused the two formites to go elsewhere for their Microtechs. furthermore, My 20 year old Son tried to drive his (MY)1998 Jeep Wrangler Saharra on it's roof on the Interstate off-ramp after being a typical foolish 20 year old. This set me back FIVE GRAND. I made Jack aware of this, and further added that I absolutely wanted that DUNCAN, as soon as I had the payment in full, it was headed his way, but I remain $100 short and I am busting Butt to find the cash. Jack remained UNRELENTLESS. I began to feel like I was being pressured by a "Car Salesman". I also began to feel like Jack was acting like a KNIFE DEALER, and not a KNIFE "wheeler-Dealer".
The E-mails continued with jack DEMANDING I throw in one of my production knives with the $300 to "save my name and allow Jack to have restored faith in me, and allow Jack to continue to [DEAL] with and TO me".
I AGAIN explained that WHEN I had the full $400 in cash, I would send it. If this was not acceptable, he could certainly post it for sale in the "knife exchange" and if someone bought it, OH WELL. NOPE, Jack E-mailed again explaining what a "nice guy" he is for allowing me to BUY one of his knives, and to send the $300 and the final $100 in 30 days OR LESS. I again E-mailed back and explained that as soon as I had the full $400.00, I would BUY that Duncan. I REALLY WANTED IT BADLY!! I could have written the final $100 off a money market account BUT that would change my entire style of Knife collecting. No, knives have become far to precious to me to throw "easy" money at them. Only thru money earned the hard way, allowed me to really appreciate my very humble knife collection. I made it perfectly clear that I was NOT buying any knives UNTIL I had the final $100, and then and ONLY then would I send it to JAXURMAN.
NOPE, another E-mail asking why, and again questioning my integrity, my honor and my good name, the three MOST important things that define Ira.
That was it!!! I banged out an abestos glove E-mail to Jack. It said "Take that Whiplash and stick it up your A$$. Jack acted like a PURE hig-pressure DEALER and finally crossed the line.
So here we are. I have checked the archives of BF. I CANNOT find ONE POST whre Jack offers one bit on info on ANY knife or any Knife-related topic. ALL 400 plus posts are DIRECTLY associated with the buying, selling or trading of knives. Read his style of selling. Just like a good salesman. Start at a HIGH number, and every hour or so, if no interest is shown, drop the price add a sales propaganda tidbit and watch the knife for interest. None, do it again.
There is so MUCH more here on BF for a TRUE knife lover. Jack is a TRUE Knife lover, this remains my belief. BUT his style of "Wheeling and Dealing", his continued rubbing crap in the faces of us "little-players" and his CONSTANT Ego stroking comments about his Vast collection, walk-in safe, 100 Grand in AVAILABLE knives, and his strong-arm selling tactics make Jack a what?
So, I am done whinning. I WRONGED Jack twice. I stand GUILTY as Charged. I accept my punishment with dignity and MOVE forward. BUT in this FINAL "knife exchange" Jack acted like a DEALER, threatened to destroy my name on BF if I did NOT buy this Duncan, and then applied "down and dirty" car salesman like tactics. For this, SOMEONE also needs to stand TALL and admit WRONG and ACCEPT their poison and then MOVE FORWARD, and that someone is NOT named IRA..........To all who have found this offensive, I apologize from the bottom of my heart. This has been another very painful EDUCATION in the Knife-world. Soon, I will no longer be a NEWBIE, but my love for knives grows STRONGER every day, and my desire to participate in EVERY part of BF remains very STRONG.........Ira
And Burke, It was my SUPREME honor and Priviledge to be able to SERVE my COUNTRY, MY STATE, and the Great Citizens of the USA
